Dec. 14, 2023
"Merry Christmas? Preparing to Engage Family Dysfunction."

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Join Jimmy and Annette as they discuss how it can be difficult to see family at Christmas when there is dysfunction or prior trauma. Learn how to prepare yourself for engaging your family.
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Don't get down when you're seeing the worst,
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because the last will be the first.
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What a day, I'm telling you,
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all things will be new.
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Living up in a down world.
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Yeah, we're living, yeah, we're living,
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living up in a down world.
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Oh!
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This is Jimmy Internet.
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We are coming to you now from our news studio,
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and this is episode number 47.
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News studio, wow.
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I like the way that sounds.
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I know, I like the way it smells.
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I know, okay, so, our son-in-law came in here to help us.
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We're still unboxing things.
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Thank you, Brandon.
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And he and I were putting together the lamps,
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and he said, is this freshly painted,
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because it smells like it?
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I said, well, it is, although it's been a few weeks,
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but it's the carpet that smells.
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Yes, and the carpet is gorgeous.
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I think I did a good job with all the furniture.
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It makes me want to take my shoes off, though.
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You know.
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It's pretty.
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I love furniture.
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I love solid, good furniture.
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We love leather.
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Yes.
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So, we bought new leather furniture for our house last year.
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This year, new leather furniture.
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Is that leather?
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Is that real-deal leather?
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Oh, yeah.
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Is that real-deal?
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No, no, no.
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It's not Naga-hide.
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I don't do that.
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I don't do that.
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It looks fantastic.
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I actually unboxed that and put it together today.
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I'm shocked.
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I'm shocked.
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Well, I was seeing it out in the hall, and I'm like,
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that's bugging me.
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It needs to be...
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Well, there's two mirrors that need to be unboxed,
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and there's a monitor that...
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Right.
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We'll do that tomorrow, because we'll have some time tomorrow
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to do that.
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So, it's looking great.
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It is.
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Super excited.
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We shot our first video in here, or my first video,
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which was for the church.
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For the church.
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So, we've got new lighting.
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We've got a new table and chairs.
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We've got new mic stands.
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Couch is coming in the morning.
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Couch is coming tomorrow.
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Oh, it's in the morning?
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You got the notice?
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Between 8, 30 to 12, 30.
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Oh, yay.
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That's great.
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We'll be here.
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And so, that'll...
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Well, not quite, but almost complete.
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The biggest thing...
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The only thing we'll lack is the acoustic wall that we're having built,
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and that's going to be, I'm hoping, next week.
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It comes in Monday or Tuesday.
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It comes in Monday.
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Monday.
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So, just...
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We want to give you guys a heads up.
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If you hear a little bit of an echo in here,
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we're still not done.
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We're doing the sound panel,
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and the sound panel is an entire wall,
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and we'll be up against that wall.
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It's also the backdrop for our set.
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So, for videos...
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Are we going to be doing YouTube...
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Now, we do YouTube channel.
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We will be doing that.
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Right.
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Called...
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Meet Pray Love.
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And someone said, is it Meet M-E-E-T?
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I said, no.
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Meet M-E-E-T.
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Me, carnivore.
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Because we're carnivore.
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But are we going to be doing video podcasts in the future?
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Is that in our future?
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It's absolutely possible.
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I mean, we could do that sitting here, talking back and forth.
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We've got this great table.
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And then it can be on here too.
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I mean, it's interesting.
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Yeah, yeah.
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It's all kind of...
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We can do anything in here.
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That's what the beauty of having a dedicated studio space.
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Studio.
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Interesting.
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And, of course, we'll have a big cup of coffee on each of our sides.
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We have a new addiction, don't we?
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Oh, my gosh.
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And this is the Curry's fault.
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And this is the Curry's fault.
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It is.
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They introduced us to Black Rifle Coffee.
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Oh, my gosh.
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And then Rick Green from the Patriot Academy said that they have a new coffee that they
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developed.
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And I'm open to trying it.
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I'm open because I like Rick.
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I will try it.
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I will try it.
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I'm open to trying Rick's coffee.
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But I went off coffee for two stinking months and thought, I'm done.
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I'm done.
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I'm no longer addicted.
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And then it starts to get a little chilly.
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And here I am.
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Yeah, it's hard not to.
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I'm more addicted now than I was.
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Oh, my gosh.
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That is the best coffee I've ever tasted.
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It is.
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It's so smooth.
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It's strong and bold, but it is smooth.
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It has no bitter, no bitterness.
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Tina says it does, but I don't taste the bitterness.
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I don't either, at least not in the cups, the K cups we're doing.
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We did the K cups.
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This is so quick and easy for us.
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I bet his is so strong because he uses ground coffee and they put a lot in the carafe or
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whatever.
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That's probably why.
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Yeah, it could be.
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I can't do that.
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He does a French press.
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Right.
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So yeah, you can make that stronger if you want.
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But anyway, that's our new addiction, our new love.
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Oh, my gosh.
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So back to the studio.
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We'll have that done next week.
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So there may be a little bit of an echo in here because we still don't have all of our
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furniture, which will break up the sound.
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So it's a big, big, nice box.
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I mean, we're in this box, but...
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But we have carpet, which helps.
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We didn't have carpet at our house.
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So speak into your mic.
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Just make sure.
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That'll help.
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Okay.
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I'm getting as close.
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We even bought new mics.
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You're doing good.
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We bought new equipment.
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No, not new mic stands.
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Stands.
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We did buy a camera.
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That's going to be a full frame camera for really high def and like 4K and all that stuff.
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Yes.
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And one of the reasons why we did that, I have to let our audience know, when Pastor
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Jimmy did a YouTube channel, when you were being interviewed, one gentleman wrote in
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and said, I couldn't listen.
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I couldn't watch because the quality was so bad.
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And we were like, okay, we got to do something.
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But we didn't.
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It was our first time.
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Not just because some dork did that.
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That wasn't it at all.
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I know.
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But still, we want to be excellent in everything we do.
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But we were, I was doing this favor for Adam Lacey on his Carnivore Today channel.
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So I had to just grab the thing I had.
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It was, you made do.
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Yeah, I made do.
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But, oh, it's going to be nice.
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It's going to be super nice.
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Got lighting too, studio lighting and everything.
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So we got that set up today and shot our first video.
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So it'll be interesting.
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It's fun.
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This is fun stuff.
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It's really enjoyable.
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You know, when you talk about the things you love, you want to talk a lot about them.
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Exactly.
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So steak, meat.
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I mean, I love meat.
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You girl have turned into a lioness.
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I know.
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I mean, like I'm a meat snob.
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You are.
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Yeah.
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Because you have to have filet mignon while I'm over there eating a chuck eye.
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Poor man's rib eye.
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I've always had a champagne taste.
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Always.
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I grew up that way.
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That is the truth.
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I'm glad that I had the money to have.
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I just had that.
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Exactly.
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Exactly.
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It came from my mother, I believe, because she wanted the best of everything.
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And yeah, it's pretty crazy.
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Oh, well, hey, you're worth it.
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You're worth it.
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It's so tasty.
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You are worth it.
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And you look stunning today.
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Oh, thank you.
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I like the shirt.
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I like the jacket.
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What do you call it?
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It's not a jacket, is it?
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It's a cardigan sweater.
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Oh, thank you.
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Yes.
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Thank you.
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Technical stuff.
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Oh my gosh.
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You're funny.
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I like the vibe in here.
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I do, too.
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We need to bring those lights on down.
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Oh, we have a dimmer.
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Do you want me to trot over there and do that?
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Trot over there.
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Okay.
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Let's go see.
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You keep going.
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You keep talking.
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Well, okay.
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You're so funny.
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I'll be right back.
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It's going to be nice.
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Can you hear it?
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Yes.
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One of the reasons why we felt like it's...
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That's good.
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That's good.
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One of the reasons why we felt like it was good to move our studio here is because we
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want to...
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We'll be spending more time at the office.
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We're getting busier and busier.
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We're going to three services in January.
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But we felt like after we have some meetings on a Tuesday morning, we can come right in
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here and record, rather than go home and then go, oh, do we even have anything in us?
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And I always want to...
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Sometimes we're tired.
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Yeah, sometimes we're tired because we've been meeting with people all day.
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And I want to...
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We may even do it first thing in the morning before we have a staff meeting or something.
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We can kind of plan it however we want.
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But we want to be excellent in that and we want to have good energy and not be so tired.
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And lately...
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Oh my goodness.
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Well, life got crazy after we got off of sabbatical.
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What did we do?
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Oh my gosh.
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We have like increased...
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I know.
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I think...
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Well, part of it is...
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I mean, this is just the reality of it.
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We focused on mind, body, spirit.
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So that trifecta, taking care of our mental health, our spiritual health, our physical
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health, it energized us.
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It did.
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So we came back strong.
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I mean, like when we talked about going to three services, I looked at our staff, whom
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I love and adore, and I could see the terror in their eyes.
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Mainly in Leslie's case because she has to deal with volunteers, more volunteers.
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Because their mind just goes into overdrive of how are we going to staff it?
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How are we going to do it?
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Do we have a worship team to do it?
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There's a lot of moving parts to it.
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But I'm the one who carries the ball on preaching three services when I play guitar.
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I'll play guitar and preach three services.
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But I didn't bat an eye.
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I mean, I literally...
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If you would have said this last year, we brought it up some last year and I was resistant
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because I was like, I can barely make two right now, but I feel so amazing.
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And it's not just carnivore.
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It's not just the diet.
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It's actually my heart and my spirit and my mentality.
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You got rejuvenated.
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I did.
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You got so rested that you're able to put on more on your plate, put more on your plate.
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And so that's what we're going to do.
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But we're going to space it out.
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We've decided that we're going to do podcasts every two weeks.
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Yeah, big announcement right there.
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Because we...
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For now.
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Right.
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It may be a season.
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It could change.
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It may not, but for now...
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But we don't know what it's...
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Right now, we're going into the holidays.
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Yeah.
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Then we start our three services.
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We're going to be with energy everywhere that we need to.
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Yeah, exactly.
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And so I feel like we'll have more content.
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We'll be refreshed.
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I think so too.
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I mean, because we have a whole lot going on.
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We've had things every other night.
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We've had dinner dates and all...
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It's all good.
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It's all people we love.
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It's church families who want to spend time with.
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So these are things, but they do tend to pile up sometimes.
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I mean, we had a big staff Christmas party with what?
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40 people there.
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40 people.
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And older staff and their wives and husbands and spouses.
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So yeah, so I mean, we've been going and blowing, but we still feel fantastic.
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And today, the weather kind of turned and it feels more like Christmas.
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It really does.
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I mean, I walked out.
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I didn't even wear...
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I didn't bring a coat.
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I've got a sweater on, but it's a light...
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Well, I have a sweater on.
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No, this is a super light sweater.
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And I walked out and man, the wind was blowing.
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It was raining like that misty drizzle.
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And I was like, whoa, it is actually cold out here.
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It switched on us.
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Wow, okay.
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That caught me off guard.
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But I was just going straight to the car.
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So I hung out with a bunch of pastors today who have become friends.
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Pastor Lance from Brady, Texas, small town America, Pastor Tim and Pastor David, they're
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two pastors from Mason, Texas.
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So those are smaller communities in our area.
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And then we're a small community here in Fredericksburg, even though God's given us a massive footprint.
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It's a small town.
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So it's really neat getting to know guys that are in similar situations in terms of being
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in a small town and supporting each other.
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Like-mindedness.
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Yeah, like-minded support, encouragement, prayed for each other.
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They gathered around me and prayed over me because we met at my church.
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And then when we meet at somebody else's, we'll gather around them and pray over them.
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It's just a way to encourage and build each other up.
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Super cool.
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Super encouraged by that.
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I love that.
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I love that.
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Yeah, it was neat.
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So even though it's a bit premature that we're in our studio, it's either that or we wouldn't
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have been able to do a show today.
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And we don't have-
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Chevy.
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That's my only sad moment right now.
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We can bring him.
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We were very busy today.
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Yeah, we can on Tuesdays.
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We didn't today because we knew we had a lot of outside things going.
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But Chevy's been really sick and we had to take him to the hospital bed yesterday.
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To the puppy doctor yesterday.
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Almost $400 later after all the x-rays, everything.
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Did we really need that?
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I was like, what?
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That sounds like us.
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It's more than what happens when we go.
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I know, exactly.
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Yeah, it was.
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But he's okay.
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He has allergies, really bad ear infection.
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But he scared me.
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Now, okay, Chevy's a dog.
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Hello.
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But he's keeping us up with his coughing.
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It sounds like that's something a toddler would do.
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And he's keeping us up at night because of his coughing.
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And then yesterday he woke up, he was coughing, but then he seemed to be gasping for air.
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And that scared me.
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That's why we ended up having to take him in because we didn't want there to be...
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We were afraid there could be an obstruction.
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Right, right.
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Or he had swallowed something maybe that we didn't know about.
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So yeah, so I took him in yesterday.
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I stayed home from the office while you guys had staff meeting.
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I was zoomed in or I just did a conference in.
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So I was still with you, but I was taking care of him.
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But you know what was so cool?
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I took him to this great place called Lindner over in Comfort, Texas, right off the I-10.
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And three girls in the office there, I walk in, we start chatting.
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They're just in a good mood.
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I mean, I was like, you know, they're happy.
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I could tell it was a good atmosphere.
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I said, hey, I got a question for y'all.
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Can you imagine what I just asked?
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Oh, so you did your question.
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I said, I got a question.
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I'll start with you.
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And I pointed to the one girl and I said, first thing comes off top of your head, what
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are you thankful for?
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And she went, oh, oh, my family.
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Everybody says family.
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I said, you know what?
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That's the number one answer by far.
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And I said, how about you?
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And she said, my dog.
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Oh, of course.
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She works at a...
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She better say that.
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She works at a veterinarian office, her dog.
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And then the other one was family as well.
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And they just, they started laughing.
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We got us laughing and talking.
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I said, I've been surveying dozens of people.
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And in fact, I did our waiter today, Steve at Hill and Vine.
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You're doing it everywhere.
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And he and I had a great visit, great chat.
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And he said, I'm just happy to be here to serve you.
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I said, oh, your tip just went up, bro.
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Oh, wow.
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You're working it.
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I remember, I remember we had a friend and every time we would go to a restaurant, they
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would say, your tip is going to depend on...
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They would start off the meal.
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You take care of us, you're going to get a big tip.
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He did that everywhere we went.
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Now, I can't remember who it was, but I remember that distinctly, that that person said, your
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tip will depend.
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If you take care of us, you keep us with sweet tea or whatever.
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You will get a great tip, but it worked because I don't know if it would work these days.
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This was more like 15 years ago.
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God, it's a little different.
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But it was different.
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I had never heard anything like that.
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My approach is kindness.
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I treat them with dignity and respect.
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But he didn't say it in a mean way.
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He was just saying...
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Yeah, but still laying the law down a little bit.
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It's like, yeah, don't cross over this line or else kind of thing.
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It feels like a threat.
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It can work, bro.
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Of course, the waiter could go, you know what, I'll find someone else.
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I always look for a contact point.
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If it's a dude, I don't do females, but always looking for a contact point.
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He was wearing a watch similar to mine.
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Oops, sorry.
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Oh, so there's your conversation.
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So I said, hey, how do you like your Apple Ultra?
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And he's like, oh man, I love this thing and blah, blah, blah.
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I used to have a Garmin.
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And then we started talking about triathlons and working out.
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And then he hung out for a while with all four of his pastors.
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He had no idea standing over the table full of pastors.
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Wow.
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It's cool.
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That's good.
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I like Steve.
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He's a neat guy.
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So yeah.
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Hey, so one of the things we were talking about is the power of what we say and do.
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It's interesting to me how things come back to you.
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Yes.
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Like, you know, you can say, for me, even on this podcast, we could say something and
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it may be something we've said in other arenas, but for whatever reason, God takes that one
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thing, that one little ism, that little truth, and he zeros it in on somebody on the other
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side of the world.
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That's the beauty of podcasting is that you can literally impact somebody in another country,
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in another nation.
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And speaking of that, we got a beautiful note from Iris.
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Remember Iris from Holland?
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And she gave us a boost, 35,000 sats.
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She says, Hi, Jimmy and Annette, I loved your past episodes.
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Thank you for the reminder to be grateful.
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Trust in God to help us on our path and to please God before people.
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I am always very inspired after listening to you and more confident in my faith.
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Lots of love, Iris.
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Isn't that beautiful?
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That's beautiful.
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And I just thought about how the power of this, we had a conversation and we talked
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about gratitude, which I talk a lot about because I talk about a lot about the things
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I love.
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And we were talking about that.
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And we were also talking about, you know, we need to, God's who we need to please,
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not everybody else.
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And sometimes we sacrifice pleasing God for pleasing others.
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And so she just cued in on that.
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And so to think that right here in Fredericksburg, Texas, that message got over to Iris across
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the world and she was encouraged and blessed by it.
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That's beautiful.
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Isn't that amazing?
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Technology is amazing to me.
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If you leverage it for good, it's fantastic.
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I remember there was a day when you were so excited when it was when technology was just
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coming very apparent and I wasn't very happy about it because I was thinking about all
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the negative aspects of it.
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But as we've matured and we've grown and technology has grown, I mean, obviously there's
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a lot of negative, but there's a lot of positive.
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We wouldn't be able to do what we're doing if we didn't have technology.
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And so, you know, and doing this podcast, this isn't just I mean, it's not just little
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old Fredericksburg people that are hearing us.
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We have the opportunity to affect people in Japan, of which we're going hopefully next
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year.
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We we affect people in all different parts of the world.
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And what we say matters.
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And it's I love the fact that we can.
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I mean, this is to me part of the gospel of Matthew 28 and go into all the world and preach
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the gospel.
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That's beautiful.
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And this is what we're doing.
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And we're able to get it to places that we normally could never get it to because we're
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you know, we're not going to be able to travel to every place in the world that needs a gospel.
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But you can through the airwaves.
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And I love that we have this opportunity and have the opportunity through video as well.
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You know, we video our services.
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I love that churches are now becoming able to be able to video their services.
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People that probably thought they would never have the opportunity to do that.
537
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Maybe a small church doesn't have a lot of money, but it doesn't take much.
538
00:19:08,800 --> 00:19:11,280
Do you remember when we used an iPad?
539
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And we was an old iPad, four years old, out of date.
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Yes.
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And I gaff taped it to a pole.
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And that's how we recorded our services.
543
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This was just four years ago.
544
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All we had four years ago.
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Yeah, four.
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And now look at it.
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Yeah, that was when we were a campus of another church.
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And so we didn't have a lot of resources and they wouldn't really help us with any resources
549
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to do technology.
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So we're like, we'll figure it out.
551
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You get resourceful when you have to.
552
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But we felt so impressed that we needed to get the message out.
553
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I love the word good news.
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When we use the word gospel, the gospel of Jesus Christ, and there may be listeners who
555
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don't know what that means.
556
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It literally means good news.
557
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It's the good news of Jesus Christ, not the bad news.
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Sometimes people think Christianity is bad news.
559
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No, this is good news.
560
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Or a bunch of rules of do's and don'ts.
561
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Right, right.
562
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Yeah, that's, I don't know.
563
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I remember I got over that real quick as a new Christian and realized, no, this is, there's
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a lot of do's.
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Like, man, we got a lot to do.
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This is amazing.
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00:20:14,640 --> 00:20:18,680
And I found out that living for Jesus was like being on an adventure.
568
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Like you're in a, you know, C.S. Lewis Chronicles of Narnia movie or something.
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It was life-giving and good.
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00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:29,000
And so, you know, you were talking about the power of podcasting, the power of getting
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our voice out.
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We called this podcast, Living Up in a Down World, because that's our goal.
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We want to be positive.
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We want, there's too many negative voices out there in the world.
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00:20:40,520 --> 00:20:46,760
You know, I love what Adam Curry and John Dvorak are doing with, you know, media deconstruction.
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They're saying, look, this is not true, or this is actually a lie.
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This is false information.
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00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:57,920
And they're deconstructing that because we don't need to give energy to bad news or fake
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news.
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And when you've got good news, you want to tell people about it.
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00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:07,420
And I feel led to challenge our listeners right now.
582
00:21:07,420 --> 00:21:09,640
Maybe you thought, well, maybe I should do a podcast.
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I got things to talk about.
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I would encourage you to do it.
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00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:16,960
You know, we took the plunge and we didn't have anything.
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We didn't have a microphone.
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We didn't have a mic stand.
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We didn't have anything.
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And it was actually Adam and Tina challenged us to do a podcast.
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And we were like, we don't know where to start.
591
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We don't know what to do.
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And then here we're 47 episodes in.
593
00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:38,880
And then we were challenged to do a YouTube channel, you know, in particular for our health,
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you know, journey.
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And I thought, OK, we can wait until we get all the right equipment.
596
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We can wait until we've got a studio.
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We can wait until it.
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And instead, I just did it.
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I pulled the trigger.
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Because I've realized that you can sit around with good intentions and never do anything.
601
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It's true.
602
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But there's something that's exciting about jumping into the unknown and in knowing it
603
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could fail, knowing it may not work, knowing that it may be a miss, a swing and a miss.
604
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But there's also something exciting when you do it and someone writes you a note back and
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says, this really helped me.
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This changed my life.
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I'm now walking with Jesus and I walked away.
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I'm now going back to a church because I walked away because I was hurt.
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Those are the things I want to hear.
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And we are hearing those constantly.
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And that's what keeps me going.
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If one person says what you're saying is making sense to me, it's I feel like it's time for
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me to make a change in my life.
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It's worth it.
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And just know we're not fishing for compliments.
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This is actually we're asking for testimonies.
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If what we're doing matters and if what we're doing is helping you, I've learned I gave
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up my right to withhold encouragement.
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So when I'm in a given situation, for example, Steve, our waiter today, I mean, or the girls
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at the veterinary clinic, you know, these are kids.
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I just have given up the right to withhold encouragement.
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And so any environment I'm in right now, it's like my antenna is up, my eyes are open, my
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radar is on, and I'm looking for an opportunity.
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00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:26,960
I don't force anything because that's weird.
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I guess weird.
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But it's amazing how natural these things come up if you're aware and if you're kind
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of looking for that opportunity to encourage.
628
00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:39,360
The word encourage simply means to inspire courage.
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It's to build another person up.
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And the reason I do it is because I know how I feel when people build me up.
631
00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:51,240
And it is interesting how when you throw things out there, they come back.
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You do need a lot of encouragement.
633
00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:58,640
You have course always number one love language.
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Words of affirmation.
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Words of affirmation.
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Yep.
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And so that's why you love doing that.
638
00:24:03,120 --> 00:24:08,080
Not because you want them to do it back, but because it's something that you desire so
639
00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:09,080
much.
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00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:10,080
So you just give it to others.
641
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So I give it to others.
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You just give it to others.
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I love that.
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Give what I want.
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And sometimes it does come back.
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Sometimes it doesn't.
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That's okay too.
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But there's something powerful when we build other people up.
649
00:24:20,360 --> 00:24:24,080
So the whole idea of living up in a down world, the whole idea of doing a podcast, the whole
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idea of doing a meet, pray, love, health journey YouTube channel is to build people up because
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there's so much bad news in this world.
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We want to live up in a down world, not live down in a down world.
653
00:24:36,680 --> 00:24:38,880
The holidays can be very tough for some people.
654
00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:41,280
Oh, thank you for bringing that up.
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Very tough.
656
00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:43,280
Wow, talk about that for a second.
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00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:50,940
And so to me, people need encouragement right now because they may be going into situations
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and you know, into a family situation that's uncomfortable, that brings on anxiety, depression.
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And we want you to be able to go in to those situations and have the strength that God
660
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:07,680
wants to give you to get through that.
661
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And to go in with eyes and a heart that's softened, that's different because you're
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00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:19,200
different and not go into those situations as you always have in the past.
663
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And I know for me, it was hard.
664
00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:26,680
Every Christmas was hard because my dad was so mean.
665
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And so he hated the name of Jesus.
666
00:25:29,360 --> 00:25:35,740
And every time we brought it up, you know, it was, there was carnage, honestly.
667
00:25:35,740 --> 00:25:38,720
And every Christmas, my mother would do this.
668
00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:44,080
She would buy him a Bible every Christmas for years.
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And my sister and I were married, you know, we're bringing our family and we know what's
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going to happen.
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And she continued to do that.
672
00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:54,960
It was so hard.
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And so we had a lot of anxiety going in to Christmas knowing what my mom was going to
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00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:08,080
do until finally we got her to, mom, this is not the way you win him to Christ.
675
00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:13,720
You win him by loving him, by treating him the way you want to be treated.
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You win him by showing how you love one another and how, you know, showing the love of Christ
677
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but not throwing it down his throat, so to speak.
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00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:31,360
And it was just, the great thing is, is he ended up coming to know the Lord right before
679
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his death.
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That was so powerful.
681
00:26:33,360 --> 00:26:39,440
But the anxiety we felt just going every Christmas was very difficult on us.
682
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And so I know there are people out there that have family members that maybe mistreated
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them when they were younger and they have to see them again.
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And those are hard things.
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But, you know, God wants to redeem and restore.
686
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And that's who he is.
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00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:59,080
He is a God that restores.
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00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:03,680
He restores us back to the way, he restores us better than we were.
689
00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:08,920
And I know that because I know what I've gone through in my past and how I needed to be
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00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:11,160
redeemed and restored.
691
00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:15,320
And so to me, that's, you know, that's the message.
692
00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:21,440
The gospel is when he can come in and he can restore you and you don't feel those things
693
00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:22,440
anymore.
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00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:24,560
You go in with a different heart.
695
00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:27,360
You see through a different lens.
696
00:27:27,360 --> 00:27:31,960
And to me, it can make Christmas so much more delightful.
697
00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:39,680
When you put the emphasis on Christ-mas, not Christmas as in commercial holiday.
698
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:47,560
And so this Christmas, I pray that as we've, if you've listened to us and hopefully gotten
699
00:27:47,560 --> 00:27:51,960
into the word that you're going to go in and have a different type of Christmas than you've
700
00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:52,960
ever had.
701
00:27:52,960 --> 00:28:02,480
I know like for instance, Adam and Tina, they last Christmas, it was their, I don't know,
702
00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:08,560
it was their really first Christmas last year when they were getting to know God.
703
00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:09,560
Okay.
704
00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:11,760
Let's just say getting to know him.
705
00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:18,080
This Christmas, they have matured so much that, and they're having family come in.
706
00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:22,880
And I guarantee you this Christmas is going to be so different because they are so different.
707
00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:29,040
They're approaching this Christmas season as a child of God, not as just someone who's
708
00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:31,120
just been informed of who God is.
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00:28:31,120 --> 00:28:32,120
Do you know what I'm saying?
710
00:28:32,120 --> 00:28:36,360
And I know that it's going to be special for them.
711
00:28:36,360 --> 00:28:42,920
And I pray that for everybody that's listening that let's not go in with commercial eyes
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00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:45,400
of the best presents.
713
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:48,120
I got to have the best food.
714
00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:51,160
It's all about retail.
715
00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:54,240
Let's go into it with what is the true reason?
716
00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:57,160
Why is it that we even have Christmas?
717
00:28:57,160 --> 00:29:00,040
Why do we even celebrate Christmas?
718
00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:05,440
We didn't even do many decorations this year.
719
00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:10,480
We chose, well, sorry, we chose to kind of go a little bit more minimalistic this year
720
00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:16,120
and not put so much emphasis on our, on that in our home at this point, just because we
721
00:29:16,120 --> 00:29:17,720
were busy.
722
00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:22,440
But it was, it's, I mean, it's kind of creeping up on us.
723
00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:24,080
It's in less than two weeks.
724
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:25,080
It's here.
725
00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:29,040
And you know, I love what you're saying because there are people even listening that have
726
00:29:29,040 --> 00:29:30,040
been traumatized by family.
727
00:29:30,040 --> 00:29:31,040
That's what I said.
728
00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:32,040
Yes.
729
00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:35,960
Just lived in real trauma and real terror like you did.
730
00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:41,080
And then the thought of going back into those environments can be really harsh and very
731
00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:42,080
triggering.
732
00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:43,080
Yes.
733
00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:44,080
And I agree with you.
734
00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:49,000
And I think the prayer for those who listen to our show and really for everybody is that
735
00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:53,680
they will realize how much they've changed, how much they've grown.
736
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:55,320
They're not that kid anymore.
737
00:29:55,320 --> 00:30:01,200
They're not that sad, lonely, broken teenager anymore.
738
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:02,560
They're a child of God.
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00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:05,360
They're a son of God, a daughter of God.
740
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:09,600
And they carry that identity now back into those environments.
741
00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:15,360
And I have to say, you know, I remember when I got in my twenties, especially in here,
742
00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:20,240
I was married now, I was going to college, I was working full time and going to college
743
00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:23,120
and being, it was crazy, crazy life.
744
00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:28,160
And I remember when I would go back home, because we moved away from to another community,
745
00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:31,880
would go back home over the holidays and I would almost revert to a 12 year old in my
746
00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:32,880
mind.
747
00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:34,160
Now I was blessed.
748
00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:37,720
I didn't have abuse and all those things.
749
00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:43,320
But still there's dysfunctional family dynamics that you deal with, even if there's not trauma
750
00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:47,440
or abuse, there's still dysfunction because we're all humans, right?
751
00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:48,520
Being human.
752
00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:54,120
So I would go back and I would catch myself relating to my grandmother like I was 12 again.
753
00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:58,280
And it wasn't until I got like through my twenties and starting to get in my thirties
754
00:30:58,280 --> 00:31:03,380
where I began to really embrace my identity as a child of God that I'm not that 12 year
755
00:31:03,380 --> 00:31:05,060
old kid anymore.
756
00:31:05,060 --> 00:31:09,360
And so it may not even be that you had abuse, but it may just be there was a dysfunctional
757
00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:11,100
family dynamic.
758
00:31:11,100 --> 00:31:12,100
And I don't blame my family.
759
00:31:12,100 --> 00:31:15,920
I had a great family, but hey, we were weird like everybody else.
760
00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:22,800
It's no blame or anything on anybody, but we just had odd dynamics sometimes.
761
00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:31,920
And so you may be going back into a hard situation or a hard dynamic where your mom or your grandmother
762
00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:38,160
still knows how to push every button you have and that turns you back into a teenager in
763
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:39,160
a nanosecond.
764
00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:43,720
And so we want to encourage you in that, that as you go back, first of all, you should take
765
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:50,240
a moment and literally out loud say to yourself, I am not who I used to be in the name of Jesus.
766
00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:54,280
And because of Jesus, I am now a child of the King.
767
00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:57,000
I'm a child of the ancient of days.
768
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I'm a child of God and I'm not that person.
769
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And I can walk upright knowing that God is who I look to, not anybody else, not man,
770
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but God.
771
00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:16,160
The word righteous, for example, when the Bible says that we are the righteousness of
772
00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:20,400
God in Christ Jesus, it literally means we are able to stand upright.
773
00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:22,400
In other words, we're not cowering.
774
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:23,400
We're not in fear.
775
00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:28,340
We're not cowering out of a loss of esteem or identity.
776
00:32:28,340 --> 00:32:29,720
We're actually bold.
777
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:31,520
We're actually strong.
778
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:35,120
And we are because Christ makes us that way, not because we can just rev it up or make
779
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it happen, but it is.
780
00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:43,840
And so to encourage you as you go back into odd family dynamics, maybe not abusive now,
781
00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:49,440
but maybe still triggering, walk in like you're different because you are.
782
00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:53,760
Remind yourself when you're out in the car before you walk in and carry all your goodies
783
00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:55,280
and stuff in there.
784
00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:57,000
I am not who I used to be.
785
00:32:57,000 --> 00:32:58,960
This will not be the same.
786
00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:03,020
And we've encouraged people to do that for years as pastors and kind of right before
787
00:33:03,020 --> 00:33:06,920
Christmas we'll always talk about family dynamics from the pulpit and say, hey, you're about
788
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to step back into some could be awkward situations.
789
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:12,200
You're not who you used to be.
790
00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:15,520
You're not even who you were a year ago when you were there last year.
791
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And so I just want to encourage our listeners to really embrace the truth that you are God's
792
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child, you're God's son, God's daughter.
793
00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:28,200
You're not that insecure teenager anymore.
794
00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:30,040
You're not that insecure adult anymore.
795
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:32,080
You're secure in Jesus.
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And let the truth of God's Word bring out the book and let the truth of God's Word change
797
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your mind about things.
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Love that.
799
00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:44,480
You know, I was just now looking at the calendar.
800
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Our next podcast, Christmas will be over.
801
00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:48,680
Oh, wow.
802
00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:49,680
Wow.
803
00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:50,680
That's why I wanted to bring that up.
804
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:51,680
Merry Christmas, everybody.
805
00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:55,080
Because literally Christmas is in a week and a half.
806
00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:56,080
And I thought...
807
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It's hard to believe it's here.
808
00:33:57,400 --> 00:33:58,400
I know.
809
00:33:58,400 --> 00:34:04,200
And I thought that was important that we share that because we definitely want you to have...
810
00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:07,800
We want this to be the best Christmas you've ever had.
811
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And especially if you're embracing Christ, maybe for the first time or coming back, we
812
00:34:13,640 --> 00:34:17,320
want this to be a time where you're so different.
813
00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:19,720
People go, I want what you have.
814
00:34:19,720 --> 00:34:20,760
What's changed about you?
815
00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:21,760
What did you do different?
816
00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:22,760
Yeah, you're different.
817
00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:23,760
Yeah.
818
00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:24,760
Something's different.
819
00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:25,760
Yeah.
820
00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:26,760
And we're not going to have that opportunity.
821
00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:29,480
We're going to have our daughter and son-in-law are coming.
822
00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:32,920
We are going to Tina and Adam's on Christmas Day.
823
00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:35,880
So we're not going to be around people this time.
824
00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:36,880
Our typical family.
825
00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:39,640
Well, but it'll give us a good time to rest.
826
00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:41,960
Oh, it'll be really needed.
827
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:42,960
Many times.
828
00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:45,440
But we're around people all the time, almost daily.
829
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:46,440
It is true.
830
00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:47,440
So it'll be a nice rest.
831
00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:54,440
But I still really encourage you to draw near to Jesus.
832
00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:58,160
He says, when you draw near to me, I'll draw near to you.
833
00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:01,080
And draw near to Him in this time.
834
00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:04,640
Don't forget who He is and what He's done in your life.
835
00:35:04,640 --> 00:35:06,640
So what are our plans for the holidays?
836
00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:08,240
What are we going to do with all this downtime?
837
00:35:08,240 --> 00:35:09,240
Nothing.
838
00:35:09,240 --> 00:35:10,240
We talked about this already.
839
00:35:10,240 --> 00:35:11,240
I cannot wait.
840
00:35:11,240 --> 00:35:14,280
We're going to carnivore like to the end of the world, and then we're going to go to the
841
00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:15,840
gym almost every day.
842
00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:16,840
And rest.
843
00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:18,520
I'm looking forward to it.
844
00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:21,720
It's funny because people don't think going to the gym is restful, but it is for us.
845
00:35:21,720 --> 00:35:22,720
It's therapeutic.
846
00:35:22,720 --> 00:35:23,720
It is.
847
00:35:23,720 --> 00:35:27,160
And we always listen to preaching, teaching, or some good music.
848
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:30,640
It's spiritually therapeutic for us, honestly.
849
00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:35,880
Because that's the time that we really spend more time in His Word.
850
00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:41,540
Not that we don't every day, but we really increase our time when we get to rest.
851
00:35:41,540 --> 00:35:43,560
So who do we have to thank today?
852
00:35:43,560 --> 00:35:48,800
Well, not a lot today because we didn't do our show last week, and so it gets really
853
00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:49,800
quiet.
854
00:35:49,800 --> 00:36:00,400
But I do have to say that one Mr. Adam, the Podfather Curry at 77,777 sats.
855
00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:01,400
That's a striper boost.
856
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:05,960
And he says, my word for 2024, because we've been talking about my one word.
857
00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:06,960
What is your one word?
858
00:36:06,960 --> 00:36:08,640
He says, my word will be encourage.
859
00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:11,080
I just said that.
860
00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:14,120
And he says, another excellent episode.
861
00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:16,440
Adam is already like an over the top.
862
00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:18,600
He's one of the most encouraging people I know.
863
00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:21,160
One of the most positive people I've ever met.
864
00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:22,160
For real.
865
00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:23,160
Yes.
866
00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:24,680
And so that'll be a great word for him.
867
00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:27,480
This may be the first year he's ever done that.
868
00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:31,880
So for those of you listening, Annette and I, years ago, we used to do, I used to try
869
00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:32,880
to do resolutions.
870
00:36:32,880 --> 00:36:33,880
Remember that?
871
00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:35,160
And I'd go, here's top 10.
872
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:36,160
You never did that?
873
00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:37,160
I did.
874
00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:38,160
I brought them down.
875
00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:39,160
Oh yeah.
876
00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:40,160
No, I did.
877
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:41,160
But then I'd forget them the day after.
878
00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:42,160
I would lose them.
879
00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:43,160
I forgot where I stuck them.
880
00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:44,160
I stuck them in a Bible somewhere or a book and I can't find them.
881
00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:45,160
Never looked at them again.
882
00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:46,160
I know.
883
00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:47,160
I was like, ah, I can't remember.
884
00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:48,840
I can't remember again, but I don't remember.
885
00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:53,840
So then we stumbled on, it's been years ago, this thing called My One Word.
886
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:56,280
And I thought, oh, what a great idea.
887
00:36:56,280 --> 00:37:03,840
Instead of having 10 resolutions that I'll forget in two weeks or less, or I'll misplace,
888
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:06,000
pick one word that is a theme.
889
00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:08,680
It's thematic for the year.
890
00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:10,920
And so I've had several.
891
00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:15,840
I'm revisiting, I'm revisiting a word right now.
892
00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:17,400
And the word is engage.
893
00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:19,280
Which we've had in the past.
894
00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:20,280
Back when we were in Tennessee.
895
00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:21,280
But it's a good word.
896
00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:22,280
Back when we lived in Nashville.
897
00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:23,280
Yes, it's a good word.
898
00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:27,360
It was actually the word that I gave for the year that we came here.
899
00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:29,560
It was a, I'm ready to engage.
900
00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:30,560
Was that really?
901
00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:31,560
I'm ready.
902
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:32,560
That year.
903
00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:33,560
I was stepping into a new place.
904
00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:34,560
I love that.
905
00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:35,560
So that was 2016.
906
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:36,640
So we're revisiting that one.
907
00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:40,880
And usually we embrace the same word just because it's easy for us to encourage each
908
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:41,880
other.
909
00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:44,080
Well, I used to have a separate one and then it got confusing.
910
00:37:44,080 --> 00:37:46,520
And we decided, which you came up with engage.
911
00:37:46,520 --> 00:37:47,520
So I'm just going along with it.
912
00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:48,520
Are you cool with that?
913
00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:49,520
You like it?
914
00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:50,520
Yep.
915
00:37:50,520 --> 00:37:52,680
I figure it fits where we're at right now is we're praying for revival.
916
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:53,840
We're believing for it.
917
00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:58,360
We're being more engaging with people by asking them what they're thankful for every day,
918
00:37:58,360 --> 00:37:59,800
everywhere I go.
919
00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:02,120
So do what?
920
00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:03,120
He has youth in a minute.
921
00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:05,120
So we need to get, I'm looking at the time.
922
00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:06,120
Oh, 425.
923
00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:08,000
That's why I'm like, yeah, we need to wrap it up a minute.
924
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:09,000
Okay.
925
00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:10,000
Yeah.
926
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:12,000
I've got student ministry about to fire up on the other side of the wall.
927
00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:14,920
We don't want them to interrupt our podcast.
928
00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:15,920
What's time to land the plane?
929
00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:17,360
Listen, we love you guys.
930
00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:21,560
And we want to say thank you for being patient with us as we get the studio built.
931
00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:22,560
It's getting there.
932
00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:25,160
I'll take some pictures in two weeks when we come back.
933
00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:26,160
It should be done.
934
00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:27,160
It'll be done.
935
00:38:27,160 --> 00:38:28,160
Oh, totally.
936
00:38:28,160 --> 00:38:29,160
Actually.
937
00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:30,160
Yeah.
938
00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:33,080
Before then, but we wanted to have a small one just right before we get going.
939
00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:34,800
So, Hey, we love you guys.
940
00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:36,160
And Hey, Merry Christmas.
941
00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:37,480
Can you believe it's here?
942
00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:39,960
Go watch some Hallmark movies or something.
943
00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:42,120
You guys have a great week.
944
00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:43,120
Merry Christmas.
945
00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:44,120
Merry Christmas.
946
00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:45,120
We'll talk to you the next time.
947
00:38:45,120 --> 00:39:12,520
Bye bye.