Dec. 14, 2023

"Merry Christmas? Preparing to Engage Family Dysfunction."

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Living Up In A Down World

Join Jimmy and Annette as they discuss how it can be difficult to see family at Christmas when there is dysfunction or prior trauma. Learn how to prepare yourself for engaging your family.

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1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:08,000 Don't get down when you're seeing the worst, 2 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:10,000 because the last will be the first. 3 00:00:10,000 --> 00:00:13,000 What a day, I'm telling you, 4 00:00:13,000 --> 00:00:15,000 all things will be new. 5 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:18,000 Living up in a down world. 6 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:21,000 Yeah, we're living, yeah, we're living, 7 00:00:21,000 --> 00:00:25,000 living up in a down world. 8 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:27,000 Oh! 9 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:28,000 This is Jimmy Internet. 10 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:31,000 We are coming to you now from our news studio, 11 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:35,000 and this is episode number 47. 12 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:38,000 News studio, wow. 13 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:40,000 I like the way that sounds. 14 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:42,000 I know, I like the way it smells. 15 00:00:42,000 --> 00:00:47,000 I know, okay, so, our son-in-law came in here to help us. 16 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:49,000 We're still unboxing things. 17 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:50,000 Thank you, Brandon. 18 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:53,000 And he and I were putting together the lamps, 19 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:56,000 and he said, is this freshly painted, 20 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:57,000 because it smells like it? 21 00:00:57,000 --> 00:01:00,000 I said, well, it is, although it's been a few weeks, 22 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:03,000 but it's the carpet that smells. 23 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:05,000 Yes, and the carpet is gorgeous. 24 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:08,000 I think I did a good job with all the furniture. 25 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:10,000 It makes me want to take my shoes off, though. 26 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:11,000 You know. 27 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:12,000 It's pretty. 28 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:13,000 I love furniture. 29 00:01:13,000 --> 00:01:16,000 I love solid, good furniture. 30 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:17,000 We love leather. 31 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:18,000 Yes. 32 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:21,000 So, we bought new leather furniture for our house last year. 33 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:23,000 This year, new leather furniture. 34 00:01:23,000 --> 00:01:24,000 Is that leather? 35 00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:25,000 Is that real-deal leather? 36 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:26,000 Oh, yeah. 37 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:27,000 Is that real-deal? 38 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:28,000 No, no, no. 39 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:29,000 It's not Naga-hide. 40 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:30,000 I don't do that. 41 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:31,000 I don't do that. 42 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:32,000 It looks fantastic. 43 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:34,000 I actually unboxed that and put it together today. 44 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:35,000 I'm shocked. 45 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:36,000 I'm shocked. 46 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:38,000 Well, I was seeing it out in the hall, and I'm like, 47 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:39,000 that's bugging me. 48 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:40,000 It needs to be... 49 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:42,000 Well, there's two mirrors that need to be unboxed, 50 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:43,000 and there's a monitor that... 51 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:44,000 Right. 52 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:45,000 We'll do that tomorrow, because we'll have some time tomorrow 53 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:46,000 to do that. 54 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:47,000 So, it's looking great. 55 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:48,000 It is. 56 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:49,000 Super excited. 57 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:50,000 We shot our first video in here, or my first video, 58 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:51,000 which was for the church. 59 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:52,000 For the church. 60 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:53,000 So, we've got new lighting. 61 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:56,000 We've got a new table and chairs. 62 00:01:56,000 --> 00:01:57,000 We've got new mic stands. 63 00:01:57,000 --> 00:01:58,000 Couch is coming in the morning. 64 00:01:58,000 --> 00:01:59,000 Couch is coming tomorrow. 65 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:00,000 Oh, it's in the morning? 66 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:01,000 You got the notice? 67 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:02,000 Between 8, 30 to 12, 30. 68 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:03,000 Oh, yay. 69 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:04,000 That's great. 70 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:05,000 We'll be here. 71 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:06,000 And so, that'll... 72 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:08,000 Well, not quite, but almost complete. 73 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:09,000 The biggest thing... 74 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:12,000 The only thing we'll lack is the acoustic wall that we're having built, 75 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:15,000 and that's going to be, I'm hoping, next week. 76 00:02:15,000 --> 00:02:16,000 It comes in Monday or Tuesday. 77 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:17,000 It comes in Monday. 78 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:18,000 Monday. 79 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:19,000 So, just... 80 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:20,000 We want to give you guys a heads up. 81 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:22,000 If you hear a little bit of an echo in here, 82 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:23,000 we're still not done. 83 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:24,000 We're doing the sound panel, 84 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:26,000 and the sound panel is an entire wall, 85 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:28,000 and we'll be up against that wall. 86 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:30,000 It's also the backdrop for our set. 87 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:31,000 So, for videos... 88 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:33,000 Are we going to be doing YouTube... 89 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:35,000 Now, we do YouTube channel. 90 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:36,000 We will be doing that. 91 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:37,000 Right. 92 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:38,000 Called... 93 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:39,000 Meet Pray Love. 94 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:42,000 And someone said, is it Meet M-E-E-T? 95 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:43,000 I said, no. 96 00:02:43,000 --> 00:02:44,000 Meet M-E-E-T. 97 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:45,000 Me, carnivore. 98 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:46,000 Because we're carnivore. 99 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:51,000 But are we going to be doing video podcasts in the future? 100 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:52,000 Is that in our future? 101 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:53,000 It's absolutely possible. 102 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:56,000 I mean, we could do that sitting here, talking back and forth. 103 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:57,000 We've got this great table. 104 00:02:57,000 --> 00:02:59,000 And then it can be on here too. 105 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:00,000 I mean, it's interesting. 106 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:01,000 Yeah, yeah. 107 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:02,000 It's all kind of... 108 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:03,000 We can do anything in here. 109 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:06,000 That's what the beauty of having a dedicated studio space. 110 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:07,000 Studio. 111 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:08,000 Interesting. 112 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:11,000 And, of course, we'll have a big cup of coffee on each of our sides. 113 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:13,000 We have a new addiction, don't we? 114 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:14,000 Oh, my gosh. 115 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:15,000 And this is the Curry's fault. 116 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:16,000 And this is the Curry's fault. 117 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:17,000 It is. 118 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:19,000 They introduced us to Black Rifle Coffee. 119 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:20,000 Oh, my gosh. 120 00:03:20,000 --> 00:03:24,000 And then Rick Green from the Patriot Academy said that they have a new coffee that they 121 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:25,000 developed. 122 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:26,000 And I'm open to trying it. 123 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:27,000 I'm open because I like Rick. 124 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:28,000 I will try it. 125 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:29,000 I will try it. 126 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:30,000 I'm open to trying Rick's coffee. 127 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:34,000 But I went off coffee for two stinking months and thought, I'm done. 128 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:35,000 I'm done. 129 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:36,000 I'm no longer addicted. 130 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:37,000 And then it starts to get a little chilly. 131 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:38,000 And here I am. 132 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:39,000 Yeah, it's hard not to. 133 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:41,000 I'm more addicted now than I was. 134 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:42,000 Oh, my gosh. 135 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:44,000 That is the best coffee I've ever tasted. 136 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:45,000 It is. 137 00:03:45,000 --> 00:03:46,000 It's so smooth. 138 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:48,000 It's strong and bold, but it is smooth. 139 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:50,000 It has no bitter, no bitterness. 140 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:53,000 Tina says it does, but I don't taste the bitterness. 141 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:56,000 I don't either, at least not in the cups, the K cups we're doing. 142 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:57,000 Yeah. 143 00:03:57,000 --> 00:03:58,000 We did the K cups. 144 00:03:58,000 --> 00:03:59,000 This is so quick and easy for us. 145 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:08,000 I bet his is so strong because he uses ground coffee and they put a lot in the carafe or 146 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:09,000 whatever. 147 00:04:09,000 --> 00:04:10,000 That's probably why. 148 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:11,000 Yeah, it could be. 149 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:12,000 I can't do that. 150 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:13,000 He does a French press. 151 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:14,000 Right. 152 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:16,000 So yeah, you can make that stronger if you want. 153 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:18,000 But anyway, that's our new addiction, our new love. 154 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:19,000 Oh, my gosh. 155 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:20,000 So back to the studio. 156 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:21,000 We'll have that done next week. 157 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:24,000 So there may be a little bit of an echo in here because we still don't have all of our 158 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:26,000 furniture, which will break up the sound. 159 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:28,000 So it's a big, big, nice box. 160 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:30,000 I mean, we're in this box, but... 161 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:32,000 But we have carpet, which helps. 162 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:33,000 Yeah. 163 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:34,000 We didn't have carpet at our house. 164 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:35,000 So speak into your mic. 165 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:36,000 Just make sure. 166 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:37,000 That'll help. 167 00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:38,000 Okay. 168 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:39,000 I'm getting as close. 169 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:40,000 We even bought new mics. 170 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:41,000 You're doing good. 171 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:42,000 We bought new equipment. 172 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:43,000 No, not new mic stands. 173 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:44,000 Stands. 174 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:45,000 We did buy a camera. 175 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:52,520 That's going to be a full frame camera for really high def and like 4K and all that stuff. 176 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:53,520 Yes. 177 00:04:53,520 --> 00:04:58,600 And one of the reasons why we did that, I have to let our audience know, when Pastor 178 00:04:58,600 --> 00:05:07,160 Jimmy did a YouTube channel, when you were being interviewed, one gentleman wrote in 179 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:08,520 and said, I couldn't listen. 180 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:12,360 I couldn't watch because the quality was so bad. 181 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:14,560 And we were like, okay, we got to do something. 182 00:05:14,560 --> 00:05:15,560 But we didn't. 183 00:05:15,560 --> 00:05:16,560 It was our first time. 184 00:05:16,560 --> 00:05:17,560 Not just because some dork did that. 185 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:18,560 That wasn't it at all. 186 00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:19,560 I know. 187 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:21,320 But still, we want to be excellent in everything we do. 188 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:26,800 But we were, I was doing this favor for Adam Lacey on his Carnivore Today channel. 189 00:05:26,800 --> 00:05:29,840 So I had to just grab the thing I had. 190 00:05:29,840 --> 00:05:30,840 It was, you made do. 191 00:05:30,840 --> 00:05:31,840 Yeah, I made do. 192 00:05:31,840 --> 00:05:33,840 But, oh, it's going to be nice. 193 00:05:33,840 --> 00:05:35,040 It's going to be super nice. 194 00:05:35,040 --> 00:05:37,480 Got lighting too, studio lighting and everything. 195 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:39,800 So we got that set up today and shot our first video. 196 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:41,320 So it'll be interesting. 197 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:42,320 It's fun. 198 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:43,320 This is fun stuff. 199 00:05:43,320 --> 00:05:45,160 It's really enjoyable. 200 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:50,360 You know, when you talk about the things you love, you want to talk a lot about them. 201 00:05:50,360 --> 00:05:51,360 Exactly. 202 00:05:51,360 --> 00:05:52,360 So steak, meat. 203 00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:55,000 I mean, I love meat. 204 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:57,560 You girl have turned into a lioness. 205 00:05:57,560 --> 00:05:58,560 I know. 206 00:05:58,560 --> 00:06:00,820 I mean, like I'm a meat snob. 207 00:06:00,820 --> 00:06:01,820 You are. 208 00:06:01,820 --> 00:06:02,820 Yeah. 209 00:06:02,820 --> 00:06:06,920 Because you have to have filet mignon while I'm over there eating a chuck eye. 210 00:06:06,920 --> 00:06:08,120 Poor man's rib eye. 211 00:06:08,120 --> 00:06:10,280 I've always had a champagne taste. 212 00:06:10,280 --> 00:06:11,280 Always. 213 00:06:11,280 --> 00:06:12,280 I grew up that way. 214 00:06:12,280 --> 00:06:13,280 That is the truth. 215 00:06:13,280 --> 00:06:16,200 I'm glad that I had the money to have. 216 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:17,200 I just had that. 217 00:06:17,200 --> 00:06:18,200 Exactly. 218 00:06:18,200 --> 00:06:19,200 Exactly. 219 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:22,200 It came from my mother, I believe, because she wanted the best of everything. 220 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:24,880 And yeah, it's pretty crazy. 221 00:06:24,880 --> 00:06:26,680 Oh, well, hey, you're worth it. 222 00:06:26,680 --> 00:06:27,680 You're worth it. 223 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:28,680 It's so tasty. 224 00:06:28,680 --> 00:06:29,680 You are worth it. 225 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:30,680 And you look stunning today. 226 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:31,680 Oh, thank you. 227 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:32,680 I like the shirt. 228 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:33,680 I like the jacket. 229 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:34,680 What do you call it? 230 00:06:34,680 --> 00:06:35,680 It's not a jacket, is it? 231 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:36,680 It's a cardigan sweater. 232 00:06:36,680 --> 00:06:37,680 Oh, thank you. 233 00:06:37,680 --> 00:06:38,680 Yes. 234 00:06:38,680 --> 00:06:39,680 Thank you. 235 00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:40,680 Technical stuff. 236 00:06:40,680 --> 00:06:41,680 Oh my gosh. 237 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:42,680 You're funny. 238 00:06:42,680 --> 00:06:44,760 I like the vibe in here. 239 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:45,760 I do, too. 240 00:06:45,760 --> 00:06:47,400 We need to bring those lights on down. 241 00:06:47,400 --> 00:06:48,400 Oh, we have a dimmer. 242 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:50,400 Do you want me to trot over there and do that? 243 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:51,400 Trot over there. 244 00:06:51,400 --> 00:06:52,400 Okay. 245 00:06:52,400 --> 00:06:53,400 Let's go see. 246 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:54,400 You keep going. 247 00:06:54,400 --> 00:06:55,400 You keep talking. 248 00:06:55,400 --> 00:06:56,400 Well, okay. 249 00:06:56,400 --> 00:06:57,400 You're so funny. 250 00:06:57,400 --> 00:06:58,400 I'll be right back. 251 00:06:58,400 --> 00:06:59,400 It's going to be nice. 252 00:06:59,400 --> 00:07:00,400 Can you hear it? 253 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:01,400 Yes. 254 00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:06,400 One of the reasons why we felt like it's... 255 00:07:06,400 --> 00:07:07,400 That's good. 256 00:07:07,400 --> 00:07:08,400 That's good. 257 00:07:08,400 --> 00:07:11,600 One of the reasons why we felt like it was good to move our studio here is because we 258 00:07:11,600 --> 00:07:12,960 want to... 259 00:07:12,960 --> 00:07:14,560 We'll be spending more time at the office. 260 00:07:14,560 --> 00:07:16,000 We're getting busier and busier. 261 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:19,240 We're going to three services in January. 262 00:07:19,240 --> 00:07:23,720 But we felt like after we have some meetings on a Tuesday morning, we can come right in 263 00:07:23,720 --> 00:07:31,440 here and record, rather than go home and then go, oh, do we even have anything in us? 264 00:07:31,440 --> 00:07:32,440 And I always want to... 265 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:33,440 Sometimes we're tired. 266 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:36,680 Yeah, sometimes we're tired because we've been meeting with people all day. 267 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:37,680 And I want to... 268 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:41,040 We may even do it first thing in the morning before we have a staff meeting or something. 269 00:07:41,040 --> 00:07:42,840 We can kind of plan it however we want. 270 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:51,360 But we want to be excellent in that and we want to have good energy and not be so tired. 271 00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:52,360 And lately... 272 00:07:52,360 --> 00:07:53,360 Oh my goodness. 273 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:55,760 Well, life got crazy after we got off of sabbatical. 274 00:07:55,760 --> 00:07:56,760 Okay. 275 00:07:56,760 --> 00:07:57,760 What did we do? 276 00:07:57,760 --> 00:07:58,760 Oh my gosh. 277 00:07:58,760 --> 00:07:59,760 We have like increased... 278 00:07:59,760 --> 00:08:00,760 I know. 279 00:08:00,760 --> 00:08:01,760 I think... 280 00:08:01,760 --> 00:08:02,760 Well, part of it is... 281 00:08:02,760 --> 00:08:03,760 Okay. 282 00:08:03,760 --> 00:08:05,280 I mean, this is just the reality of it. 283 00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:08,280 We focused on mind, body, spirit. 284 00:08:08,280 --> 00:08:12,880 So that trifecta, taking care of our mental health, our spiritual health, our physical 285 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:14,800 health, it energized us. 286 00:08:14,800 --> 00:08:15,800 It did. 287 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:17,160 So we came back strong. 288 00:08:17,160 --> 00:08:22,080 I mean, like when we talked about going to three services, I looked at our staff, whom 289 00:08:22,080 --> 00:08:26,000 I love and adore, and I could see the terror in their eyes. 290 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:31,600 Mainly in Leslie's case because she has to deal with volunteers, more volunteers. 291 00:08:31,600 --> 00:08:34,480 Because their mind just goes into overdrive of how are we going to staff it? 292 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:35,480 How are we going to do it? 293 00:08:35,480 --> 00:08:36,480 Do we have a worship team to do it? 294 00:08:36,480 --> 00:08:39,160 There's a lot of moving parts to it. 295 00:08:39,160 --> 00:08:43,320 But I'm the one who carries the ball on preaching three services when I play guitar. 296 00:08:43,320 --> 00:08:46,680 I'll play guitar and preach three services. 297 00:08:46,680 --> 00:08:47,680 But I didn't bat an eye. 298 00:08:47,680 --> 00:08:49,360 I mean, I literally... 299 00:08:49,360 --> 00:08:53,840 If you would have said this last year, we brought it up some last year and I was resistant 300 00:08:53,840 --> 00:08:59,760 because I was like, I can barely make two right now, but I feel so amazing. 301 00:08:59,760 --> 00:09:01,040 And it's not just carnivore. 302 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:02,400 It's not just the diet. 303 00:09:02,400 --> 00:09:06,200 It's actually my heart and my spirit and my mentality. 304 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:07,200 You got rejuvenated. 305 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:08,200 I did. 306 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:15,600 You got so rested that you're able to put on more on your plate, put more on your plate. 307 00:09:15,600 --> 00:09:17,760 And so that's what we're going to do. 308 00:09:17,760 --> 00:09:19,400 But we're going to space it out. 309 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:22,960 We've decided that we're going to do podcasts every two weeks. 310 00:09:22,960 --> 00:09:24,920 Yeah, big announcement right there. 311 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:25,920 Because we... 312 00:09:25,920 --> 00:09:26,920 For now. 313 00:09:26,920 --> 00:09:27,920 Right. 314 00:09:27,920 --> 00:09:28,920 It may be a season. 315 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:29,920 It could change. 316 00:09:29,920 --> 00:09:30,920 It may not, but for now... 317 00:09:30,920 --> 00:09:31,920 But we don't know what it's... 318 00:09:31,920 --> 00:09:32,920 Right now, we're going into the holidays. 319 00:09:32,920 --> 00:09:33,920 Yeah. 320 00:09:33,920 --> 00:09:34,920 Then we start our three services. 321 00:09:34,920 --> 00:09:37,960 We're going to be with energy everywhere that we need to. 322 00:09:37,960 --> 00:09:38,960 Yeah, exactly. 323 00:09:38,960 --> 00:09:41,240 And so I feel like we'll have more content. 324 00:09:41,240 --> 00:09:43,400 We'll be refreshed. 325 00:09:43,400 --> 00:09:44,400 I think so too. 326 00:09:44,400 --> 00:09:47,240 I mean, because we have a whole lot going on. 327 00:09:47,240 --> 00:09:49,640 We've had things every other night. 328 00:09:49,640 --> 00:09:51,400 We've had dinner dates and all... 329 00:09:51,400 --> 00:09:52,400 It's all good. 330 00:09:52,400 --> 00:09:53,400 It's all people we love. 331 00:09:53,400 --> 00:09:56,040 It's church families who want to spend time with. 332 00:09:56,040 --> 00:09:59,320 So these are things, but they do tend to pile up sometimes. 333 00:09:59,320 --> 00:10:02,160 I mean, we had a big staff Christmas party with what? 334 00:10:02,160 --> 00:10:03,160 40 people there. 335 00:10:03,160 --> 00:10:04,160 40 people. 336 00:10:04,160 --> 00:10:07,600 And older staff and their wives and husbands and spouses. 337 00:10:07,600 --> 00:10:14,240 So yeah, so I mean, we've been going and blowing, but we still feel fantastic. 338 00:10:14,240 --> 00:10:19,120 And today, the weather kind of turned and it feels more like Christmas. 339 00:10:19,120 --> 00:10:20,120 It really does. 340 00:10:20,120 --> 00:10:21,120 I mean, I walked out. 341 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:22,120 I didn't even wear... 342 00:10:22,120 --> 00:10:23,120 I didn't bring a coat. 343 00:10:23,120 --> 00:10:25,120 I've got a sweater on, but it's a light... 344 00:10:25,120 --> 00:10:26,120 Well, I have a sweater on. 345 00:10:26,120 --> 00:10:28,440 No, this is a super light sweater. 346 00:10:28,440 --> 00:10:30,720 And I walked out and man, the wind was blowing. 347 00:10:30,720 --> 00:10:34,040 It was raining like that misty drizzle. 348 00:10:34,040 --> 00:10:37,480 And I was like, whoa, it is actually cold out here. 349 00:10:37,480 --> 00:10:38,480 It switched on us. 350 00:10:38,480 --> 00:10:39,480 Wow, okay. 351 00:10:39,480 --> 00:10:40,480 That caught me off guard. 352 00:10:40,480 --> 00:10:42,480 But I was just going straight to the car. 353 00:10:42,480 --> 00:10:46,880 So I hung out with a bunch of pastors today who have become friends. 354 00:10:46,880 --> 00:10:53,880 Pastor Lance from Brady, Texas, small town America, Pastor Tim and Pastor David, they're 355 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:56,360 two pastors from Mason, Texas. 356 00:10:56,360 --> 00:10:59,800 So those are smaller communities in our area. 357 00:10:59,800 --> 00:11:03,960 And then we're a small community here in Fredericksburg, even though God's given us a massive footprint. 358 00:11:03,960 --> 00:11:05,480 It's a small town. 359 00:11:05,480 --> 00:11:10,760 So it's really neat getting to know guys that are in similar situations in terms of being 360 00:11:10,760 --> 00:11:13,280 in a small town and supporting each other. 361 00:11:13,280 --> 00:11:14,280 Like-mindedness. 362 00:11:14,280 --> 00:11:17,840 Yeah, like-minded support, encouragement, prayed for each other. 363 00:11:17,840 --> 00:11:20,960 They gathered around me and prayed over me because we met at my church. 364 00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:24,680 And then when we meet at somebody else's, we'll gather around them and pray over them. 365 00:11:24,680 --> 00:11:26,920 It's just a way to encourage and build each other up. 366 00:11:26,920 --> 00:11:27,920 Super cool. 367 00:11:27,920 --> 00:11:29,680 Super encouraged by that. 368 00:11:29,680 --> 00:11:30,680 I love that. 369 00:11:30,680 --> 00:11:31,680 I love that. 370 00:11:31,680 --> 00:11:32,840 Yeah, it was neat. 371 00:11:32,840 --> 00:11:40,840 So even though it's a bit premature that we're in our studio, it's either that or we wouldn't 372 00:11:40,840 --> 00:11:44,080 have been able to do a show today. 373 00:11:44,080 --> 00:11:45,080 And we don't have- 374 00:11:45,080 --> 00:11:46,080 Chevy. 375 00:11:46,080 --> 00:11:48,800 That's my only sad moment right now. 376 00:11:48,800 --> 00:11:49,800 We can bring him. 377 00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:50,800 We were very busy today. 378 00:11:50,800 --> 00:11:52,160 Yeah, we can on Tuesdays. 379 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:56,680 We didn't today because we knew we had a lot of outside things going. 380 00:11:56,680 --> 00:12:02,200 But Chevy's been really sick and we had to take him to the hospital bed yesterday. 381 00:12:02,200 --> 00:12:04,960 To the puppy doctor yesterday. 382 00:12:04,960 --> 00:12:08,880 Almost $400 later after all the x-rays, everything. 383 00:12:08,880 --> 00:12:10,920 Did we really need that? 384 00:12:10,920 --> 00:12:11,920 I was like, what? 385 00:12:11,920 --> 00:12:13,000 That sounds like us. 386 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:15,560 It's more than what happens when we go. 387 00:12:15,560 --> 00:12:16,560 I know, exactly. 388 00:12:16,560 --> 00:12:17,560 Yeah, it was. 389 00:12:17,560 --> 00:12:18,560 But he's okay. 390 00:12:18,560 --> 00:12:22,040 He has allergies, really bad ear infection. 391 00:12:22,040 --> 00:12:23,680 But he scared me. 392 00:12:23,680 --> 00:12:26,320 Now, okay, Chevy's a dog. 393 00:12:26,320 --> 00:12:27,320 Hello. 394 00:12:27,320 --> 00:12:29,360 But he's keeping us up with his coughing. 395 00:12:29,360 --> 00:12:33,280 It sounds like that's something a toddler would do. 396 00:12:33,280 --> 00:12:36,880 And he's keeping us up at night because of his coughing. 397 00:12:36,880 --> 00:12:43,000 And then yesterday he woke up, he was coughing, but then he seemed to be gasping for air. 398 00:12:43,000 --> 00:12:44,320 And that scared me. 399 00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:48,600 That's why we ended up having to take him in because we didn't want there to be... 400 00:12:48,600 --> 00:12:50,400 We were afraid there could be an obstruction. 401 00:12:50,400 --> 00:12:51,400 Right, right. 402 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:54,640 Or he had swallowed something maybe that we didn't know about. 403 00:12:54,640 --> 00:12:57,280 So yeah, so I took him in yesterday. 404 00:12:57,280 --> 00:13:00,440 I stayed home from the office while you guys had staff meeting. 405 00:13:00,440 --> 00:13:03,520 I was zoomed in or I just did a conference in. 406 00:13:03,520 --> 00:13:06,360 So I was still with you, but I was taking care of him. 407 00:13:06,360 --> 00:13:08,160 But you know what was so cool? 408 00:13:08,160 --> 00:13:13,480 I took him to this great place called Lindner over in Comfort, Texas, right off the I-10. 409 00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:17,560 And three girls in the office there, I walk in, we start chatting. 410 00:13:17,560 --> 00:13:18,560 They're just in a good mood. 411 00:13:18,560 --> 00:13:20,840 I mean, I was like, you know, they're happy. 412 00:13:20,840 --> 00:13:22,120 I could tell it was a good atmosphere. 413 00:13:22,120 --> 00:13:24,380 I said, hey, I got a question for y'all. 414 00:13:24,380 --> 00:13:25,380 Can you imagine what I just asked? 415 00:13:25,380 --> 00:13:26,380 Oh, so you did your question. 416 00:13:26,380 --> 00:13:27,380 I said, I got a question. 417 00:13:27,380 --> 00:13:28,380 I'll start with you. 418 00:13:28,380 --> 00:13:32,360 And I pointed to the one girl and I said, first thing comes off top of your head, what 419 00:13:32,360 --> 00:13:33,600 are you thankful for? 420 00:13:33,600 --> 00:13:37,000 And she went, oh, oh, my family. 421 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:38,000 Everybody says family. 422 00:13:38,000 --> 00:13:39,000 I said, you know what? 423 00:13:39,000 --> 00:13:40,000 That's the number one answer by far. 424 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:41,000 And I said, how about you? 425 00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:42,000 And she said, my dog. 426 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:43,000 Oh, of course. 427 00:13:43,000 --> 00:13:44,000 She works at a... 428 00:13:44,000 --> 00:13:45,000 She better say that. 429 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:47,400 She works at a veterinarian office, her dog. 430 00:13:47,400 --> 00:13:49,560 And then the other one was family as well. 431 00:13:49,560 --> 00:13:51,200 And they just, they started laughing. 432 00:13:51,200 --> 00:13:52,800 We got us laughing and talking. 433 00:13:52,800 --> 00:13:55,720 I said, I've been surveying dozens of people. 434 00:13:55,720 --> 00:14:00,080 And in fact, I did our waiter today, Steve at Hill and Vine. 435 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:01,080 You're doing it everywhere. 436 00:14:01,080 --> 00:14:03,480 And he and I had a great visit, great chat. 437 00:14:03,480 --> 00:14:06,480 And he said, I'm just happy to be here to serve you. 438 00:14:06,480 --> 00:14:08,440 I said, oh, your tip just went up, bro. 439 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:09,440 Oh, wow. 440 00:14:09,440 --> 00:14:10,440 You're working it. 441 00:14:10,440 --> 00:14:17,440 I remember, I remember we had a friend and every time we would go to a restaurant, they 442 00:14:17,440 --> 00:14:20,880 would say, your tip is going to depend on... 443 00:14:20,880 --> 00:14:23,960 They would start off the meal. 444 00:14:23,960 --> 00:14:26,360 You take care of us, you're going to get a big tip. 445 00:14:26,360 --> 00:14:29,560 He did that everywhere we went. 446 00:14:29,560 --> 00:14:37,280 Now, I can't remember who it was, but I remember that distinctly, that that person said, your 447 00:14:37,280 --> 00:14:38,400 tip will depend. 448 00:14:38,400 --> 00:14:43,560 If you take care of us, you keep us with sweet tea or whatever. 449 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:48,920 You will get a great tip, but it worked because I don't know if it would work these days. 450 00:14:48,920 --> 00:14:50,600 This was more like 15 years ago. 451 00:14:50,600 --> 00:14:52,200 God, it's a little different. 452 00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:53,200 But it was different. 453 00:14:53,200 --> 00:14:54,200 I had never heard anything like that. 454 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:55,200 My approach is kindness. 455 00:14:55,200 --> 00:14:56,200 I treat them with dignity and respect. 456 00:14:56,200 --> 00:14:58,720 But he didn't say it in a mean way. 457 00:14:58,720 --> 00:14:59,720 He was just saying... 458 00:14:59,720 --> 00:15:02,080 Yeah, but still laying the law down a little bit. 459 00:15:02,080 --> 00:15:05,120 It's like, yeah, don't cross over this line or else kind of thing. 460 00:15:05,120 --> 00:15:06,120 It feels like a threat. 461 00:15:06,120 --> 00:15:07,120 It can work, bro. 462 00:15:07,120 --> 00:15:10,120 Of course, the waiter could go, you know what, I'll find someone else. 463 00:15:10,120 --> 00:15:12,840 I always look for a contact point. 464 00:15:12,840 --> 00:15:17,600 If it's a dude, I don't do females, but always looking for a contact point. 465 00:15:17,600 --> 00:15:19,400 He was wearing a watch similar to mine. 466 00:15:19,400 --> 00:15:20,400 Oops, sorry. 467 00:15:20,400 --> 00:15:21,400 Oh, so there's your conversation. 468 00:15:21,400 --> 00:15:24,000 So I said, hey, how do you like your Apple Ultra? 469 00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:26,480 And he's like, oh man, I love this thing and blah, blah, blah. 470 00:15:26,480 --> 00:15:27,480 I used to have a Garmin. 471 00:15:27,480 --> 00:15:30,040 And then we started talking about triathlons and working out. 472 00:15:30,040 --> 00:15:33,080 And then he hung out for a while with all four of his pastors. 473 00:15:33,080 --> 00:15:36,040 He had no idea standing over the table full of pastors. 474 00:15:36,040 --> 00:15:37,040 Wow. 475 00:15:37,040 --> 00:15:38,040 It's cool. 476 00:15:38,040 --> 00:15:39,040 That's good. 477 00:15:39,040 --> 00:15:40,040 I like Steve. 478 00:15:40,040 --> 00:15:41,040 He's a neat guy. 479 00:15:41,040 --> 00:15:42,040 So yeah. 480 00:15:42,040 --> 00:15:50,800 Hey, so one of the things we were talking about is the power of what we say and do. 481 00:15:50,800 --> 00:15:53,440 It's interesting to me how things come back to you. 482 00:15:53,440 --> 00:15:54,440 Yes. 483 00:15:54,440 --> 00:16:00,120 Like, you know, you can say, for me, even on this podcast, we could say something and 484 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:05,480 it may be something we've said in other arenas, but for whatever reason, God takes that one 485 00:16:05,480 --> 00:16:12,160 thing, that one little ism, that little truth, and he zeros it in on somebody on the other 486 00:16:12,160 --> 00:16:13,500 side of the world. 487 00:16:13,500 --> 00:16:18,960 That's the beauty of podcasting is that you can literally impact somebody in another country, 488 00:16:18,960 --> 00:16:20,540 in another nation. 489 00:16:20,540 --> 00:16:24,280 And speaking of that, we got a beautiful note from Iris. 490 00:16:24,280 --> 00:16:26,960 Remember Iris from Holland? 491 00:16:26,960 --> 00:16:29,760 And she gave us a boost, 35,000 sats. 492 00:16:29,760 --> 00:16:34,000 She says, Hi, Jimmy and Annette, I loved your past episodes. 493 00:16:34,000 --> 00:16:37,320 Thank you for the reminder to be grateful. 494 00:16:37,320 --> 00:16:42,200 Trust in God to help us on our path and to please God before people. 495 00:16:42,200 --> 00:16:46,720 I am always very inspired after listening to you and more confident in my faith. 496 00:16:46,720 --> 00:16:47,720 Lots of love, Iris. 497 00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:48,720 Isn't that beautiful? 498 00:16:48,720 --> 00:16:49,720 That's beautiful. 499 00:16:49,720 --> 00:16:53,520 And I just thought about how the power of this, we had a conversation and we talked 500 00:16:53,520 --> 00:16:58,360 about gratitude, which I talk a lot about because I talk about a lot about the things 501 00:16:58,360 --> 00:17:00,520 I love. 502 00:17:00,520 --> 00:17:01,520 And we were talking about that. 503 00:17:01,520 --> 00:17:06,000 And we were also talking about, you know, we need to, God's who we need to please, 504 00:17:06,000 --> 00:17:07,000 not everybody else. 505 00:17:07,000 --> 00:17:10,400 And sometimes we sacrifice pleasing God for pleasing others. 506 00:17:10,400 --> 00:17:12,520 And so she just cued in on that. 507 00:17:12,520 --> 00:17:19,080 And so to think that right here in Fredericksburg, Texas, that message got over to Iris across 508 00:17:19,080 --> 00:17:22,080 the world and she was encouraged and blessed by it. 509 00:17:22,080 --> 00:17:23,080 That's beautiful. 510 00:17:23,080 --> 00:17:24,080 Isn't that amazing? 511 00:17:24,080 --> 00:17:26,280 Technology is amazing to me. 512 00:17:26,280 --> 00:17:29,720 If you leverage it for good, it's fantastic. 513 00:17:29,720 --> 00:17:34,600 I remember there was a day when you were so excited when it was when technology was just 514 00:17:34,600 --> 00:17:40,600 coming very apparent and I wasn't very happy about it because I was thinking about all 515 00:17:40,600 --> 00:17:43,080 the negative aspects of it. 516 00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:48,680 But as we've matured and we've grown and technology has grown, I mean, obviously there's 517 00:17:48,680 --> 00:17:52,320 a lot of negative, but there's a lot of positive. 518 00:17:52,320 --> 00:17:55,600 We wouldn't be able to do what we're doing if we didn't have technology. 519 00:17:55,600 --> 00:18:04,040 And so, you know, and doing this podcast, this isn't just I mean, it's not just little 520 00:18:04,040 --> 00:18:06,680 old Fredericksburg people that are hearing us. 521 00:18:06,680 --> 00:18:11,080 We have the opportunity to affect people in Japan, of which we're going hopefully next 522 00:18:11,080 --> 00:18:12,080 year. 523 00:18:12,080 --> 00:18:15,440 We we affect people in all different parts of the world. 524 00:18:15,440 --> 00:18:18,080 And what we say matters. 525 00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:21,680 And it's I love the fact that we can. 526 00:18:21,680 --> 00:18:27,760 I mean, this is to me part of the gospel of Matthew 28 and go into all the world and preach 527 00:18:27,760 --> 00:18:28,760 the gospel. 528 00:18:28,760 --> 00:18:29,760 That's beautiful. 529 00:18:29,760 --> 00:18:31,480 And this is what we're doing. 530 00:18:31,480 --> 00:18:36,440 And we're able to get it to places that we normally could never get it to because we're 531 00:18:36,440 --> 00:18:42,000 you know, we're not going to be able to travel to every place in the world that needs a gospel. 532 00:18:42,000 --> 00:18:44,320 But you can through the airwaves. 533 00:18:44,320 --> 00:18:50,000 And I love that we have this opportunity and have the opportunity through video as well. 534 00:18:50,000 --> 00:18:51,440 You know, we video our services. 535 00:18:51,440 --> 00:19:00,200 I love that churches are now becoming able to be able to video their services. 536 00:19:00,200 --> 00:19:03,920 People that probably thought they would never have the opportunity to do that. 537 00:19:03,920 --> 00:19:08,800 Maybe a small church doesn't have a lot of money, but it doesn't take much. 538 00:19:08,800 --> 00:19:11,280 Do you remember when we used an iPad? 539 00:19:11,280 --> 00:19:14,240 And we was an old iPad, four years old, out of date. 540 00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:15,240 Yes. 541 00:19:15,240 --> 00:19:17,840 And I gaff taped it to a pole. 542 00:19:17,840 --> 00:19:20,320 And that's how we recorded our services. 543 00:19:20,320 --> 00:19:21,720 This was just four years ago. 544 00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:23,760 All we had four years ago. 545 00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:24,760 Yeah, four. 546 00:19:24,760 --> 00:19:25,760 And now look at it. 547 00:19:25,760 --> 00:19:30,000 Yeah, that was when we were a campus of another church. 548 00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:34,840 And so we didn't have a lot of resources and they wouldn't really help us with any resources 549 00:19:34,840 --> 00:19:36,040 to do technology. 550 00:19:36,040 --> 00:19:38,480 So we're like, we'll figure it out. 551 00:19:38,480 --> 00:19:41,080 You get resourceful when you have to. 552 00:19:41,080 --> 00:19:44,880 But we felt so impressed that we needed to get the message out. 553 00:19:44,880 --> 00:19:47,120 I love the word good news. 554 00:19:47,120 --> 00:19:51,800 When we use the word gospel, the gospel of Jesus Christ, and there may be listeners who 555 00:19:51,800 --> 00:19:52,840 don't know what that means. 556 00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:54,600 It literally means good news. 557 00:19:54,600 --> 00:19:58,880 It's the good news of Jesus Christ, not the bad news. 558 00:19:58,880 --> 00:20:01,560 Sometimes people think Christianity is bad news. 559 00:20:01,560 --> 00:20:02,880 No, this is good news. 560 00:20:02,880 --> 00:20:05,000 Or a bunch of rules of do's and don'ts. 561 00:20:05,000 --> 00:20:06,000 Right, right. 562 00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:07,000 Yeah, that's, I don't know. 563 00:20:07,000 --> 00:20:10,800 I remember I got over that real quick as a new Christian and realized, no, this is, there's 564 00:20:10,800 --> 00:20:11,800 a lot of do's. 565 00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:13,640 Like, man, we got a lot to do. 566 00:20:13,640 --> 00:20:14,640 This is amazing. 567 00:20:14,640 --> 00:20:18,680 And I found out that living for Jesus was like being on an adventure. 568 00:20:18,680 --> 00:20:23,040 Like you're in a, you know, C.S. Lewis Chronicles of Narnia movie or something. 569 00:20:23,040 --> 00:20:25,480 It was life-giving and good. 570 00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:29,000 And so, you know, you were talking about the power of podcasting, the power of getting 571 00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:30,400 our voice out. 572 00:20:30,400 --> 00:20:35,360 We called this podcast, Living Up in a Down World, because that's our goal. 573 00:20:35,360 --> 00:20:36,760 We want to be positive. 574 00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:40,520 We want, there's too many negative voices out there in the world. 575 00:20:40,520 --> 00:20:46,760 You know, I love what Adam Curry and John Dvorak are doing with, you know, media deconstruction. 576 00:20:46,760 --> 00:20:49,960 They're saying, look, this is not true, or this is actually a lie. 577 00:20:49,960 --> 00:20:52,080 This is false information. 578 00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:57,920 And they're deconstructing that because we don't need to give energy to bad news or fake 579 00:20:57,920 --> 00:20:58,920 news. 580 00:20:58,920 --> 00:21:02,480 And when you've got good news, you want to tell people about it. 581 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:07,420 And I feel led to challenge our listeners right now. 582 00:21:07,420 --> 00:21:09,640 Maybe you thought, well, maybe I should do a podcast. 583 00:21:09,640 --> 00:21:11,760 I got things to talk about. 584 00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:14,000 I would encourage you to do it. 585 00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:16,960 You know, we took the plunge and we didn't have anything. 586 00:21:16,960 --> 00:21:18,280 We didn't have a microphone. 587 00:21:18,280 --> 00:21:19,640 We didn't have a mic stand. 588 00:21:19,640 --> 00:21:21,800 We didn't have anything. 589 00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:26,240 And it was actually Adam and Tina challenged us to do a podcast. 590 00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:29,440 And we were like, we don't know where to start. 591 00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:30,660 We don't know what to do. 592 00:21:30,660 --> 00:21:34,200 And then here we're 47 episodes in. 593 00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:38,880 And then we were challenged to do a YouTube channel, you know, in particular for our health, 594 00:21:38,880 --> 00:21:40,640 you know, journey. 595 00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:46,240 And I thought, OK, we can wait until we get all the right equipment. 596 00:21:46,240 --> 00:21:48,360 We can wait until we've got a studio. 597 00:21:48,360 --> 00:21:49,720 We can wait until it. 598 00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:51,200 And instead, I just did it. 599 00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:53,360 I pulled the trigger. 600 00:21:53,360 --> 00:21:58,520 Because I've realized that you can sit around with good intentions and never do anything. 601 00:21:58,520 --> 00:21:59,720 It's true. 602 00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:06,400 But there's something that's exciting about jumping into the unknown and in knowing it 603 00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:13,200 could fail, knowing it may not work, knowing that it may be a miss, a swing and a miss. 604 00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:17,720 But there's also something exciting when you do it and someone writes you a note back and 605 00:22:17,720 --> 00:22:20,000 says, this really helped me. 606 00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:21,120 This changed my life. 607 00:22:21,120 --> 00:22:25,440 I'm now walking with Jesus and I walked away. 608 00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:30,600 I'm now going back to a church because I walked away because I was hurt. 609 00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:32,560 Those are the things I want to hear. 610 00:22:32,560 --> 00:22:36,040 And we are hearing those constantly. 611 00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:38,860 And that's what keeps me going. 612 00:22:38,860 --> 00:22:46,760 If one person says what you're saying is making sense to me, it's I feel like it's time for 613 00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:49,000 me to make a change in my life. 614 00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:50,000 It's worth it. 615 00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:52,680 And just know we're not fishing for compliments. 616 00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:55,960 This is actually we're asking for testimonies. 617 00:22:55,960 --> 00:23:01,660 If what we're doing matters and if what we're doing is helping you, I've learned I gave 618 00:23:01,660 --> 00:23:03,880 up my right to withhold encouragement. 619 00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:10,120 So when I'm in a given situation, for example, Steve, our waiter today, I mean, or the girls 620 00:23:10,120 --> 00:23:13,960 at the veterinary clinic, you know, these are kids. 621 00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:17,080 I just have given up the right to withhold encouragement. 622 00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:22,000 And so any environment I'm in right now, it's like my antenna is up, my eyes are open, my 623 00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:24,840 radar is on, and I'm looking for an opportunity. 624 00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:26,960 I don't force anything because that's weird. 625 00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:28,720 I guess weird. 626 00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:34,120 But it's amazing how natural these things come up if you're aware and if you're kind 627 00:23:34,120 --> 00:23:37,240 of looking for that opportunity to encourage. 628 00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:39,360 The word encourage simply means to inspire courage. 629 00:23:39,360 --> 00:23:42,760 It's to build another person up. 630 00:23:42,760 --> 00:23:48,440 And the reason I do it is because I know how I feel when people build me up. 631 00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:51,240 And it is interesting how when you throw things out there, they come back. 632 00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:53,200 You do need a lot of encouragement. 633 00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:58,640 You have course always number one love language. 634 00:23:58,640 --> 00:23:59,640 Words of affirmation. 635 00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:00,640 Words of affirmation. 636 00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:01,640 Yep. 637 00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:03,120 And so that's why you love doing that. 638 00:24:03,120 --> 00:24:08,080 Not because you want them to do it back, but because it's something that you desire so 639 00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:09,080 much. 640 00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:10,080 So you just give it to others. 641 00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:11,080 So I give it to others. 642 00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:12,080 You just give it to others. 643 00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:13,080 I love that. 644 00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:14,080 Give what I want. 645 00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:15,080 And sometimes it does come back. 646 00:24:15,080 --> 00:24:16,080 Sometimes it doesn't. 647 00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:17,080 That's okay too. 648 00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:20,360 But there's something powerful when we build other people up. 649 00:24:20,360 --> 00:24:24,080 So the whole idea of living up in a down world, the whole idea of doing a podcast, the whole 650 00:24:24,080 --> 00:24:31,680 idea of doing a meet, pray, love, health journey YouTube channel is to build people up because 651 00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:33,640 there's so much bad news in this world. 652 00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:36,680 We want to live up in a down world, not live down in a down world. 653 00:24:36,680 --> 00:24:38,880 The holidays can be very tough for some people. 654 00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:41,280 Oh, thank you for bringing that up. 655 00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:42,280 Very tough. 656 00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:43,280 Wow, talk about that for a second. 657 00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:50,940 And so to me, people need encouragement right now because they may be going into situations 658 00:24:50,940 --> 00:24:56,800 and you know, into a family situation that's uncomfortable, that brings on anxiety, depression. 659 00:24:56,800 --> 00:25:05,240 And we want you to be able to go in to those situations and have the strength that God 660 00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:07,680 wants to give you to get through that. 661 00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:13,600 And to go in with eyes and a heart that's softened, that's different because you're 662 00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:19,200 different and not go into those situations as you always have in the past. 663 00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:23,280 And I know for me, it was hard. 664 00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:26,680 Every Christmas was hard because my dad was so mean. 665 00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:29,360 And so he hated the name of Jesus. 666 00:25:29,360 --> 00:25:35,740 And every time we brought it up, you know, it was, there was carnage, honestly. 667 00:25:35,740 --> 00:25:38,720 And every Christmas, my mother would do this. 668 00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:44,080 She would buy him a Bible every Christmas for years. 669 00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:48,680 And my sister and I were married, you know, we're bringing our family and we know what's 670 00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:50,600 going to happen. 671 00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:52,400 And she continued to do that. 672 00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:54,960 It was so hard. 673 00:25:54,960 --> 00:26:00,880 And so we had a lot of anxiety going in to Christmas knowing what my mom was going to 674 00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:08,080 do until finally we got her to, mom, this is not the way you win him to Christ. 675 00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:13,720 You win him by loving him, by treating him the way you want to be treated. 676 00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:22,440 You win him by showing how you love one another and how, you know, showing the love of Christ 677 00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:25,520 but not throwing it down his throat, so to speak. 678 00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:31,360 And it was just, the great thing is, is he ended up coming to know the Lord right before 679 00:26:31,360 --> 00:26:32,360 his death. 680 00:26:32,360 --> 00:26:33,360 That was so powerful. 681 00:26:33,360 --> 00:26:39,440 But the anxiety we felt just going every Christmas was very difficult on us. 682 00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:46,080 And so I know there are people out there that have family members that maybe mistreated 683 00:26:46,080 --> 00:26:49,680 them when they were younger and they have to see them again. 684 00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:50,800 And those are hard things. 685 00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:54,300 But, you know, God wants to redeem and restore. 686 00:26:54,300 --> 00:26:55,480 And that's who he is. 687 00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:59,080 He is a God that restores. 688 00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:03,680 He restores us back to the way, he restores us better than we were. 689 00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:08,920 And I know that because I know what I've gone through in my past and how I needed to be 690 00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:11,160 redeemed and restored. 691 00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:15,320 And so to me, that's, you know, that's the message. 692 00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:21,440 The gospel is when he can come in and he can restore you and you don't feel those things 693 00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:22,440 anymore. 694 00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:24,560 You go in with a different heart. 695 00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:27,360 You see through a different lens. 696 00:27:27,360 --> 00:27:31,960 And to me, it can make Christmas so much more delightful. 697 00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:39,680 When you put the emphasis on Christ-mas, not Christmas as in commercial holiday. 698 00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:47,560 And so this Christmas, I pray that as we've, if you've listened to us and hopefully gotten 699 00:27:47,560 --> 00:27:51,960 into the word that you're going to go in and have a different type of Christmas than you've 700 00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:52,960 ever had. 701 00:27:52,960 --> 00:28:02,480 I know like for instance, Adam and Tina, they last Christmas, it was their, I don't know, 702 00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:08,560 it was their really first Christmas last year when they were getting to know God. 703 00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:09,560 Okay. 704 00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:11,760 Let's just say getting to know him. 705 00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:18,080 This Christmas, they have matured so much that, and they're having family come in. 706 00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:22,880 And I guarantee you this Christmas is going to be so different because they are so different. 707 00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:29,040 They're approaching this Christmas season as a child of God, not as just someone who's 708 00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:31,120 just been informed of who God is. 709 00:28:31,120 --> 00:28:32,120 Do you know what I'm saying? 710 00:28:32,120 --> 00:28:36,360 And I know that it's going to be special for them. 711 00:28:36,360 --> 00:28:42,920 And I pray that for everybody that's listening that let's not go in with commercial eyes 712 00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:45,400 of the best presents. 713 00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:48,120 I got to have the best food. 714 00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:51,160 It's all about retail. 715 00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:54,240 Let's go into it with what is the true reason? 716 00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:57,160 Why is it that we even have Christmas? 717 00:28:57,160 --> 00:29:00,040 Why do we even celebrate Christmas? 718 00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:05,440 We didn't even do many decorations this year. 719 00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:10,480 We chose, well, sorry, we chose to kind of go a little bit more minimalistic this year 720 00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:16,120 and not put so much emphasis on our, on that in our home at this point, just because we 721 00:29:16,120 --> 00:29:17,720 were busy. 722 00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:22,440 But it was, it's, I mean, it's kind of creeping up on us. 723 00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:24,080 It's in less than two weeks. 724 00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:25,080 It's here. 725 00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:29,040 And you know, I love what you're saying because there are people even listening that have 726 00:29:29,040 --> 00:29:30,040 been traumatized by family. 727 00:29:30,040 --> 00:29:31,040 That's what I said. 728 00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:32,040 Yes. 729 00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:35,960 Just lived in real trauma and real terror like you did. 730 00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:41,080 And then the thought of going back into those environments can be really harsh and very 731 00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:42,080 triggering. 732 00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:43,080 Yes. 733 00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:44,080 And I agree with you. 734 00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:49,000 And I think the prayer for those who listen to our show and really for everybody is that 735 00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:53,680 they will realize how much they've changed, how much they've grown. 736 00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:55,320 They're not that kid anymore. 737 00:29:55,320 --> 00:30:01,200 They're not that sad, lonely, broken teenager anymore. 738 00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:02,560 They're a child of God. 739 00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:05,360 They're a son of God, a daughter of God. 740 00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:09,600 And they carry that identity now back into those environments. 741 00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:15,360 And I have to say, you know, I remember when I got in my twenties, especially in here, 742 00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:20,240 I was married now, I was going to college, I was working full time and going to college 743 00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:23,120 and being, it was crazy, crazy life. 744 00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:28,160 And I remember when I would go back home, because we moved away from to another community, 745 00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:31,880 would go back home over the holidays and I would almost revert to a 12 year old in my 746 00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:32,880 mind. 747 00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:34,160 Now I was blessed. 748 00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:37,720 I didn't have abuse and all those things. 749 00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:43,320 But still there's dysfunctional family dynamics that you deal with, even if there's not trauma 750 00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:47,440 or abuse, there's still dysfunction because we're all humans, right? 751 00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:48,520 Being human. 752 00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:54,120 So I would go back and I would catch myself relating to my grandmother like I was 12 again. 753 00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:58,280 And it wasn't until I got like through my twenties and starting to get in my thirties 754 00:30:58,280 --> 00:31:03,380 where I began to really embrace my identity as a child of God that I'm not that 12 year 755 00:31:03,380 --> 00:31:05,060 old kid anymore. 756 00:31:05,060 --> 00:31:09,360 And so it may not even be that you had abuse, but it may just be there was a dysfunctional 757 00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:11,100 family dynamic. 758 00:31:11,100 --> 00:31:12,100 And I don't blame my family. 759 00:31:12,100 --> 00:31:15,920 I had a great family, but hey, we were weird like everybody else. 760 00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:22,800 It's no blame or anything on anybody, but we just had odd dynamics sometimes. 761 00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:31,920 And so you may be going back into a hard situation or a hard dynamic where your mom or your grandmother 762 00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:38,160 still knows how to push every button you have and that turns you back into a teenager in 763 00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:39,160 a nanosecond. 764 00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:43,720 And so we want to encourage you in that, that as you go back, first of all, you should take 765 00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:50,240 a moment and literally out loud say to yourself, I am not who I used to be in the name of Jesus. 766 00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:54,280 And because of Jesus, I am now a child of the King. 767 00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:57,000 I'm a child of the ancient of days. 768 00:31:57,000 --> 00:32:00,840 I'm a child of God and I'm not that person. 769 00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:09,880 And I can walk upright knowing that God is who I look to, not anybody else, not man, 770 00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:10,880 but God. 771 00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:16,160 The word righteous, for example, when the Bible says that we are the righteousness of 772 00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:20,400 God in Christ Jesus, it literally means we are able to stand upright. 773 00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:22,400 In other words, we're not cowering. 774 00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:23,400 We're not in fear. 775 00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:28,340 We're not cowering out of a loss of esteem or identity. 776 00:32:28,340 --> 00:32:29,720 We're actually bold. 777 00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:31,520 We're actually strong. 778 00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:35,120 And we are because Christ makes us that way, not because we can just rev it up or make 779 00:32:35,120 --> 00:32:36,920 it happen, but it is. 780 00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:43,840 And so to encourage you as you go back into odd family dynamics, maybe not abusive now, 781 00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:49,440 but maybe still triggering, walk in like you're different because you are. 782 00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:53,760 Remind yourself when you're out in the car before you walk in and carry all your goodies 783 00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:55,280 and stuff in there. 784 00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:57,000 I am not who I used to be. 785 00:32:57,000 --> 00:32:58,960 This will not be the same. 786 00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:03,020 And we've encouraged people to do that for years as pastors and kind of right before 787 00:33:03,020 --> 00:33:06,920 Christmas we'll always talk about family dynamics from the pulpit and say, hey, you're about 788 00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:10,680 to step back into some could be awkward situations. 789 00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:12,200 You're not who you used to be. 790 00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:15,520 You're not even who you were a year ago when you were there last year. 791 00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:21,960 And so I just want to encourage our listeners to really embrace the truth that you are God's 792 00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:25,160 child, you're God's son, God's daughter. 793 00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:28,200 You're not that insecure teenager anymore. 794 00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:30,040 You're not that insecure adult anymore. 795 00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:32,080 You're secure in Jesus. 796 00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:38,560 And let the truth of God's Word bring out the book and let the truth of God's Word change 797 00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:39,560 your mind about things. 798 00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:40,560 Love that. 799 00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:44,480 You know, I was just now looking at the calendar. 800 00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:47,680 Our next podcast, Christmas will be over. 801 00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:48,680 Oh, wow. 802 00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:49,680 Wow. 803 00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:50,680 That's why I wanted to bring that up. 804 00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:51,680 Merry Christmas, everybody. 805 00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:55,080 Because literally Christmas is in a week and a half. 806 00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:56,080 And I thought... 807 00:33:56,080 --> 00:33:57,400 It's hard to believe it's here. 808 00:33:57,400 --> 00:33:58,400 I know. 809 00:33:58,400 --> 00:34:04,200 And I thought that was important that we share that because we definitely want you to have... 810 00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:07,800 We want this to be the best Christmas you've ever had. 811 00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:13,640 And especially if you're embracing Christ, maybe for the first time or coming back, we 812 00:34:13,640 --> 00:34:17,320 want this to be a time where you're so different. 813 00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:19,720 People go, I want what you have. 814 00:34:19,720 --> 00:34:20,760 What's changed about you? 815 00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:21,760 What did you do different? 816 00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:22,760 Yeah, you're different. 817 00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:23,760 Yeah. 818 00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:24,760 Something's different. 819 00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:25,760 Yeah. 820 00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:26,760 And we're not going to have that opportunity. 821 00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:29,480 We're going to have our daughter and son-in-law are coming. 822 00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:32,920 We are going to Tina and Adam's on Christmas Day. 823 00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:35,880 So we're not going to be around people this time. 824 00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:36,880 Our typical family. 825 00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:39,640 Well, but it'll give us a good time to rest. 826 00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:41,960 Oh, it'll be really needed. 827 00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:42,960 Many times. 828 00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:45,440 But we're around people all the time, almost daily. 829 00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:46,440 It is true. 830 00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:47,440 So it'll be a nice rest. 831 00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:54,440 But I still really encourage you to draw near to Jesus. 832 00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:58,160 He says, when you draw near to me, I'll draw near to you. 833 00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:01,080 And draw near to Him in this time. 834 00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:04,640 Don't forget who He is and what He's done in your life. 835 00:35:04,640 --> 00:35:06,640 So what are our plans for the holidays? 836 00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:08,240 What are we going to do with all this downtime? 837 00:35:08,240 --> 00:35:09,240 Nothing. 838 00:35:09,240 --> 00:35:10,240 We talked about this already. 839 00:35:10,240 --> 00:35:11,240 I cannot wait. 840 00:35:11,240 --> 00:35:14,280 We're going to carnivore like to the end of the world, and then we're going to go to the 841 00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:15,840 gym almost every day. 842 00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:16,840 And rest. 843 00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:18,520 I'm looking forward to it. 844 00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:21,720 It's funny because people don't think going to the gym is restful, but it is for us. 845 00:35:21,720 --> 00:35:22,720 It's therapeutic. 846 00:35:22,720 --> 00:35:23,720 It is. 847 00:35:23,720 --> 00:35:27,160 And we always listen to preaching, teaching, or some good music. 848 00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:30,640 It's spiritually therapeutic for us, honestly. 849 00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:35,880 Because that's the time that we really spend more time in His Word. 850 00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:41,540 Not that we don't every day, but we really increase our time when we get to rest. 851 00:35:41,540 --> 00:35:43,560 So who do we have to thank today? 852 00:35:43,560 --> 00:35:48,800 Well, not a lot today because we didn't do our show last week, and so it gets really 853 00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:49,800 quiet. 854 00:35:49,800 --> 00:36:00,400 But I do have to say that one Mr. Adam, the Podfather Curry at 77,777 sats. 855 00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:01,400 That's a striper boost. 856 00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:05,960 And he says, my word for 2024, because we've been talking about my one word. 857 00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:06,960 What is your one word? 858 00:36:06,960 --> 00:36:08,640 He says, my word will be encourage. 859 00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:11,080 I just said that. 860 00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:14,120 And he says, another excellent episode. 861 00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:16,440 Adam is already like an over the top. 862 00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:18,600 He's one of the most encouraging people I know. 863 00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:21,160 One of the most positive people I've ever met. 864 00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:22,160 For real. 865 00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:23,160 Yes. 866 00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:24,680 And so that'll be a great word for him. 867 00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:27,480 This may be the first year he's ever done that. 868 00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:31,880 So for those of you listening, Annette and I, years ago, we used to do, I used to try 869 00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:32,880 to do resolutions. 870 00:36:32,880 --> 00:36:33,880 Remember that? 871 00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:35,160 And I'd go, here's top 10. 872 00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:36,160 You never did that? 873 00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:37,160 I did. 874 00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:38,160 I brought them down. 875 00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:39,160 Oh yeah. 876 00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:40,160 No, I did. 877 00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:41,160 But then I'd forget them the day after. 878 00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:42,160 I would lose them. 879 00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:43,160 I forgot where I stuck them. 880 00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:44,160 I stuck them in a Bible somewhere or a book and I can't find them. 881 00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:45,160 Never looked at them again. 882 00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:46,160 I know. 883 00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:47,160 I was like, ah, I can't remember. 884 00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:48,840 I can't remember again, but I don't remember. 885 00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:53,840 So then we stumbled on, it's been years ago, this thing called My One Word. 886 00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:56,280 And I thought, oh, what a great idea. 887 00:36:56,280 --> 00:37:03,840 Instead of having 10 resolutions that I'll forget in two weeks or less, or I'll misplace, 888 00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:06,000 pick one word that is a theme. 889 00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:08,680 It's thematic for the year. 890 00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:10,920 And so I've had several. 891 00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:15,840 I'm revisiting, I'm revisiting a word right now. 892 00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:17,400 And the word is engage. 893 00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:19,280 Which we've had in the past. 894 00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:20,280 Back when we were in Tennessee. 895 00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:21,280 But it's a good word. 896 00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:22,280 Back when we lived in Nashville. 897 00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:23,280 Yes, it's a good word. 898 00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:27,360 It was actually the word that I gave for the year that we came here. 899 00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:29,560 It was a, I'm ready to engage. 900 00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:30,560 Was that really? 901 00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:31,560 I'm ready. 902 00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:32,560 That year. 903 00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:33,560 I was stepping into a new place. 904 00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:34,560 I love that. 905 00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:35,560 So that was 2016. 906 00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:36,640 So we're revisiting that one. 907 00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:40,880 And usually we embrace the same word just because it's easy for us to encourage each 908 00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:41,880 other. 909 00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:44,080 Well, I used to have a separate one and then it got confusing. 910 00:37:44,080 --> 00:37:46,520 And we decided, which you came up with engage. 911 00:37:46,520 --> 00:37:47,520 So I'm just going along with it. 912 00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:48,520 Are you cool with that? 913 00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:49,520 You like it? 914 00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:50,520 Yep. 915 00:37:50,520 --> 00:37:52,680 I figure it fits where we're at right now is we're praying for revival. 916 00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:53,840 We're believing for it. 917 00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:58,360 We're being more engaging with people by asking them what they're thankful for every day, 918 00:37:58,360 --> 00:37:59,800 everywhere I go. 919 00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:02,120 So do what? 920 00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:03,120 He has youth in a minute. 921 00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:05,120 So we need to get, I'm looking at the time. 922 00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:06,120 Oh, 425. 923 00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:08,000 That's why I'm like, yeah, we need to wrap it up a minute. 924 00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:09,000 Okay. 925 00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:10,000 Yeah. 926 00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:12,000 I've got student ministry about to fire up on the other side of the wall. 927 00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:14,920 We don't want them to interrupt our podcast. 928 00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:15,920 What's time to land the plane? 929 00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:17,360 Listen, we love you guys. 930 00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:21,560 And we want to say thank you for being patient with us as we get the studio built. 931 00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:22,560 It's getting there. 932 00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:25,160 I'll take some pictures in two weeks when we come back. 933 00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:26,160 It should be done. 934 00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:27,160 It'll be done. 935 00:38:27,160 --> 00:38:28,160 Oh, totally. 936 00:38:28,160 --> 00:38:29,160 Actually. 937 00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:30,160 Yeah. 938 00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:33,080 Before then, but we wanted to have a small one just right before we get going. 939 00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:34,800 So, Hey, we love you guys. 940 00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:36,160 And Hey, Merry Christmas. 941 00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:37,480 Can you believe it's here? 942 00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:39,960 Go watch some Hallmark movies or something. 943 00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:42,120 You guys have a great week. 944 00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:43,120 Merry Christmas. 945 00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:44,120 Merry Christmas. 946 00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:45,120 We'll talk to you the next time. 947 00:38:45,120 --> 00:39:12,520 Bye bye.